Author smudge21 Posted November 5, 2011 Author Posted November 5, 2011 I didn't send her anything. Part of me still feels I should've, but part of me feels happy I didn't. Yes, I would've been doing it for me, of course. We're not together and although we are friendly towards each other, I wouldn't class us as friends. If she'd still been on my Facebook, then I think there would've been a response, a polite message, but she's not so there wasn't.
stargirl259 Posted November 5, 2011 Posted November 5, 2011 It's a tough one Smudge21. I think not sending one was a good decision but only you know what's right. My birthday was two days ago and my ex who broke up with me contacted me to wish me a happy birthday and he needed to see me. Won't lie got excited and thought ooo maybe he wants me back? Not sure, he just wanted to give me my birthday card and present?!? Weird, I know... and now he's made that contact and shown he cares, I feel bit lost and feel like I did at the start of the breakup! I think by not sending her the card, you have saved yourself the feelings of did she receive it, what's she thinking and you don't need that right now. x
Author smudge21 Posted November 5, 2011 Author Posted November 5, 2011 I think by not sending her the card, you have saved yourself the feelings of did she receive it, what's she thinking and you don't need that right now. x Well said - hence why when we break NC, whatever the reasons, we always end up thinking about the ex afterwards, and that only sets us back.
ChelseaLS Posted November 5, 2011 Posted November 5, 2011 Hi Chelsea, may i know ur story? who broke up with who? He initiated it, but I am in full agreement that we this break.
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