4givrnt4gtr Posted October 27, 2011 Posted October 27, 2011 Have you ever felt like you just can't let go of that one guy or girl whom you know is just not good for you? Like, both of you just can't let go? I just broke up with my boyfriend of 1.5 years, and though we've had a rocky relationship from the get go (my fears mixed with his past which ended up in my fears proven by his actions in the present related to his past), I still love the man. I just can't imagine being without him.....it sucks....I really love the freaking idiot. But I can't be with him cuz that means to compromise my values and I know neither of us would be happy in that type of situation It blows And i hate it, and I feel so lonely and lost and angry at him to taking away my family like that. This is such a s hiittttyyy timeee!!!
headsashed Posted October 27, 2011 Posted October 27, 2011 im struggling to let go so im just riding it out cos i know soon enough the feelings will start to fade.
TheDovic Posted October 27, 2011 Posted October 27, 2011 Big time!!! I was with my ex for 4 years and the last year was awful. We did nothing together (we didn't so much as go to the cinema or to a bar), we had no sex life because of her low self esteem, and every moment she had was spent working. (She was taking work home with her and was literally working 16 hour days) On top of this all she became very mean and also complained a lot. My point is I was completely miserable in this relationship but find I can't let go of her. Sometimes I think it would be easier if she had cheated or something, but she really seems to have broken up with me because she had no time for me. She has told me all she does is sit in her room crying over me or working, and this has been backed up by her mum. She does not go out (well, once in the 3 & 1/2 months since we broke up) and does not spend any time with her friends. Work still consumes her entire life, yet I'd take her back in a minute... This really freaks me out!!! So I understand where you're coming from. This sucks!
new0726 Posted October 27, 2011 Posted October 27, 2011 I totally know where you are coming from. The relationship I am in is great. We have so much in common and get along great. But she just can't be completely honest. And if I hate anything, its liars. I hate it. There is no reason to lie. If you dont want to be with someone...don't be with them. you know?
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