Bobby289 Posted October 27, 2011 Posted October 27, 2011 (edited) So my ex of 2 years broke up with me about a month ago for my insecurities and her control problems, I tried for 2 weeks to get her back, went NC she called a week later to check on me and if I could help her with something when I had the chance. Text me from a bar that night for a ride and that made me disappointed. After that she started to ignore me again. I know she is going through a lot still with school, work, family, and me but I respect she had to end it because it was too much stress to deal with, she got sick a lot from stress. I sent her an email on sunday saying I am ready to move on or give it a last chance and figure things out and would appreciate a response to tell me what she wants before I cut all ties. My therapist told me to set boundaries with her so I don't get strung along, I said I am making a choice by the end of the week with or without her response. It's only mid week but I don't know what to do if she contacts me or just ignores me again. I WILL NOT CONTACT HER! Just not sure if I should have gave her the choice, just makes me feel better because I know I am giving my all. Is she thinking about what she wants or just read it and ignore it? Edited October 27, 2011 by Bobby289
immitable Posted October 27, 2011 Posted October 27, 2011 One month is too short of a period to be over someone. The fact that she blamed you for everything isn't true she used it as an excuse. You sneed time for yourself to heal and to figure if she is the right one for you or not or is it just your feeling of rejection that wants her back.
Author Bobby289 Posted October 28, 2011 Author Posted October 28, 2011 Yeah I am clearing out my head and just seeing where the pieces fall i suppose. I can't change the past, so working on a better future is all I can do!
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