Coupedriver Posted October 29, 2011 Posted October 29, 2011 Sometimes I want to hear from her . Sometimes I want to be given the opportunity to completely ignore her ( as she did me ) . Sometimes I want to hold her hand . Sometimes I want to make her feel terrible about herself . Sometimes I want to find out she is full of regret . Sometimes I don't give a damn . This all happens within a 5 minute period and repeats itself the entire day . Anyone else out there spinning like this ?[/quote Every minute of EVERY DAY..!!! I want her to FEEL how much pain she has caused me.
futuregopher Posted October 29, 2011 Posted October 29, 2011 Sometimes I want to hear from her . Sometimes I want to be given the opportunity to completely ignore her ( as she did me ) . Sometimes I want to hold her hand . Sometimes I want to make her feel terrible about herself . Sometimes I want to find out she is full of regret . Sometimes I don't give a damn . This all happens within a 5 minute period and repeats itself the entire day . Anyone else out there spinning like this ? I feel the SAME EXACT way. I just want her to have an absolutely miserable life without me with no chance of hope or happiness. I guess I am acting pretty selfish.
Coupedriver Posted October 30, 2011 Posted October 30, 2011 Are we all supposed to drop to our knees and hope for the BEST for someone?? Some un-written law..? Or supposed to be for OUR HEALING..??!!We all have different views of what happened to us through this.Some of us will deal with it differently...But to HAVE to follow so set of RULES doesn't make sense.I posted it earlier..I dont wish her HAPPINESS...A GREAT LIFE...I hope her whole world falls out from under her...I just use her attitude on life...."Oh well.."
joseph17 Posted October 30, 2011 Posted October 30, 2011 I think most of us who have an ex that has broken their hearts to not forget them and remember what they had was some what special. Nobody likes to feel like they were replaced easily it just makes you feel even more unappreciated than you did before. And at times for them to get treated like crap so they know that it wasn't just YOU that was the problem
MarMarMar Posted October 30, 2011 Posted October 30, 2011 I wish the best for him, for him to wake up and grow up and realize that he's so self destructive and stop it. I wish he would realize what we had and that he would one day return to me.
perfectlyflawed459 Posted October 30, 2011 Posted October 30, 2011 Sometimes I want to hear from her . Sometimes I want to be given the opportunity to completely ignore her ( as she did me ) . Sometimes I want to hold her hand . Sometimes I want to make her feel terrible about herself . Sometimes I want to find out she is full of regret . Sometimes I don't give a damn . This all happens within a 5 minute period and repeats itself the entire day . Anyone else out there spinning like this ? Believe me, I know exactly how you feel. As great as things have gotten in my life, I still cry over him from time to time because I miss him so so soooo much. It is all apart of healing and becoming stronger
perfectlyflawed459 Posted October 30, 2011 Posted October 30, 2011 I wish the best for him, for him to wake up and grow up and realize that he's so self destructive and stop it. I wish he would realize what we had and that he would one day return to me. Wow...I feel the same way with my ex. He became self destructive when he left me and he still is. He smokes, drinks, and parties a lot and it honestly worries me a lot. I don't want him to get hurt out there. I also do hope he one day thinks of me and realizes that we had something really special...but who knows if that will ever happen
betterdeal Posted October 30, 2011 Posted October 30, 2011 I want her to find the love and peace she's looking for. For her to have a relationship based on affection, to let go of her guilt and anger, to not be so easily persuaded, to respect her own body as much as she does her own mind and soul. I want her to be healthy, wealthy, happy and wise.
ladyravenloft Posted October 31, 2011 Posted October 31, 2011 For my ex: a raging case of head lice so he has to cut his gorgeous hair that's down to his waist. In all seriousness, I want him to get into therapy and become healthy, so that he doesn't hurt any other woman the way he's hurt me. Plus, there is a beautiful soul he hides under his pain, and I would love for him to get the confidence to show it so that some woman (not me) will love him and treat him right.
shayla Posted October 31, 2011 Posted October 31, 2011 I want for him to have to reap the consequences of his actions, just as everyone else has to do. For some reason, he is able to destroy peoples lives, and do every manipulative, deceptive, underhanded thing he wants to, leave destruction behind him, get everything he wants, and look like the greatest guy in the world.
Damia Posted November 10, 2011 Posted November 10, 2011 I want for him to have to reap the consequences of his actions, just as everyone else has to do. For some reason, he is able to destroy peoples lives, and do every manipulative, deceptive, underhanded thing he wants to, leave destruction behind him, get everything he wants, and look like the greatest guy in the world. I agree ,I find it interesting some people never seem to suffer the consequences of their actions.It is so irritating that they always come up smelling of roses !! No matter what **** went down !
Sugarkane Posted November 10, 2011 Posted November 10, 2011 I want for him to have to reap the consequences of his actions, just as everyone else has to do. For some reason, he is able to destroy peoples lives, and do every manipulative, deceptive, underhanded thing he wants to, leave destruction behind him, get everything he wants, and look like the greatest guy in the world. That's exactly how I feel.
stunned8165 Posted November 10, 2011 Posted November 10, 2011 I want her little world with him (the one she left me for, her boss) to fall to peices and realize what she gave up. It's going to anyway. Unfortunately, shes to blind to see what she got herself into right yet. I want the kids back. I miss them. I was the only dad they knew. So so sad. (http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t302201/) My story.
ChelseaLS Posted November 10, 2011 Posted November 10, 2011 Hmm... I would like my ex to stop being a pussy when it comes to commitment. I want him to deal with the loss of various people in his life (he has told me in the past that he doens't like people to get close, because they always end up leaving). I would like for him to feel the hurt I feel x 10... then we can proceed from there.
ken_25 Posted November 10, 2011 Posted November 10, 2011 She has never been dumped so.. part of me wants her to meet someone, fall hard for them and then 2-3 years later he walks out on her with no notice and then tells her he's been sleeping with someone else. That's it.
thepedestrian Posted November 10, 2011 Posted November 10, 2011 I want her to realize that I'm the one she really loves and to come back to me. Oh snap... that probably isn't happening....
MarMarMar Posted November 10, 2011 Posted November 10, 2011 Wow...I feel the same way with my ex. He became self destructive when he left me and he still is. He smokes, drinks, and parties a lot and it honestly worries me a lot. I don't want him to get hurt out there. I also do hope he one day thinks of me and realizes that we had something really special...but who knows if that will ever happen The problem with my ex is that he's always been very self destructive and since he's started drinking again I'm worried he's gonna relapse back into drugs on top of the alcohol relapse.
Coupedriver Posted November 10, 2011 Posted November 10, 2011 I have asked her this several times BUT still won't answer it..."If this the happiest YOU have ever been,why do you look so UN-HAPPY every time I see you and your forced smiles..?"
cerisenightshade Posted November 11, 2011 Posted November 11, 2011 I started out wishing for him to crawl back to me just so I can dump him right before his final exams for law school. Eventually that wish changed to I wish he would come back to me and love me for who I am. I want a second chance with him. The wish slowly evolved as I come to the realization that we are both human and imperfect. Many things went wrong in the relationship... we are both a t fault. The realization changed the wish to wishing both of us to learn from our experiences and move one with our lives. Only time will tell if we will get a second chance. Meanwhile, I wish for both of us to fully learn from our past experiences, namely this failed relationship and become better beings. I wish for happiness for BOTH of us... whether it is with another person or with each other. Sure a part of me still wishes him harm... but I realize that is just the anger and pain in me screaming for revenge.
Coupedriver Posted November 13, 2011 Posted November 13, 2011 STOP hiding the truth from me..!! To ask her..? "Why do you think I am so stupid that I don't see what your doing to yourself.?"
futuregopher Posted November 13, 2011 Posted November 13, 2011 After I just found out what she did to me, I just seriously want her to die. I never wish such bad things towards any human being but she deserves it after all the lies. I'm just really pissed off/sad right now.
DannyT27 Posted November 13, 2011 Posted November 13, 2011 I love her but want her to feel what I'm feelin, 5 years together 2 yrs living 2geva and she dropped me like that without any remorce what so ever... Devastated doesn't even come close!
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