missed_theboat Posted October 27, 2011 Posted October 27, 2011 Well that's good he initiates it, at least you know he is thinking about you. That takes a lot to be able to not be selfish about the whole thing, I admire that. Yeah, I feel that if he's the one who is calling me (which he does at least once a week or more), I can be happy with just what you said: knowing he is thinking about me and wants to keep me in his life. We have talked about getting back together, but it is too soon to tell. I know he still loves me as much as I love him, but our experience is one that requires a little bit of time and reflection on both our parts. And thank you! I try to be kind and loving, despite my heartache. I miss him terribly and think of him often--but like I said, we are still being kind and loving towards each other, albeit in a different way.
jfxxxx Posted October 27, 2011 Posted October 27, 2011 i want my ex boyfriend to wake up one day soon and believe in his heart that im worthy of a second chance (he broke up with me because i had trust issues). ive reflected a lot and now know what i need to change. every day that goes by i miss him more and more, and i hope he feels the same which to some extent, i believe he does. i also wish he'd open up his heart and stop being in denial of his feelings. i wish for him to take the space from me to grow as a person and to regain happiness, but i wish for that space to also lead us back together. which i have faith that it will, as i know we both share the same love for eachother <3
Rorschach64 Posted October 27, 2011 Posted October 27, 2011 I want my ex fiancee to realize she was so very wrong and to acknowledge that I am really worth the time, effort and love because I know I am an awesome guy
mike588 Posted October 27, 2011 Posted October 27, 2011 Even deep down I want her to be happy,, I want her to feel some of the pain I've gone thru. and realise one day she made a mistake about the reasons she dumped me.
lalalandman Posted October 27, 2011 Posted October 27, 2011 After 5 months Broken up and 2 months NC, I can honestly say that I really don't care. I'm not interested with her needs anymore. I'm not bitter, because I've already forgiven. I don't wish her harm, happiness or prosperity. I am indifferent. I think I've moved on.
superchiefs Posted October 27, 2011 Posted October 27, 2011 Some of us want them to feel the pain we are in, others say whatever makes them happy since we still love them, or even both at times... What do you want? I just want the rest of my stuff back. She broke things off with me, and now I am getting the feeling that she gave my stuff away to someone else because every time I ask for it back, she says she will work on it.
Woggle Posted October 27, 2011 Posted October 27, 2011 For jail to finally wake her up and get her off the drugs. I hope when she gets out this time she can create some kind of life for her but she will probably be using within days of release and will do something to end up back there.
Mcnulty Posted October 27, 2011 Posted October 27, 2011 For her rebound relationship with my "friend" to fail, for her to feel the loneliness and sadness I've felt for 17 months, for her son to kick off more, for her ex husband to be even more difficult than he always has been, for her drama queen tendencies to come to the fore like never before, for him to break both of his legs on one of his skiing jaunts, for him to see the misery I had to put up with for so long and for both of them to get their comeuppance via karma.
grilled cheese Posted October 27, 2011 Posted October 27, 2011 i want him to relax and clear his head and really take a decision about me,, be sure about me, and then come back... coz he really lost a girl that love him.. and i feel like down the road some girl will come and hurt him the way he did to me.. im afraid that this might happen, i need him back to protect him!!
Thieves Posted October 28, 2011 Posted October 28, 2011 For her rebound relationship with my "friend" to fail, for her to feel the loneliness and sadness I've felt for 17 months, for her son to kick off more, for her ex husband to be even more difficult than he always has been, for her drama queen tendencies to come to the fore like never before, for him to break both of his legs on one of his skiing jaunts, for him to see the misery I had to put up with for so long and for both of them to get their comeuppance via karma. ...Wow. Dare I say, would you like fries with that? I mean, that is quite a lot to desire for the ex.
mike588 Posted October 28, 2011 Posted October 28, 2011 Oh, in addition to my other post,, for her to never forget I was there for her before,,, during and after her surgery and how she dumped me 2 weeks afterwards.
Mcnulty Posted October 28, 2011 Posted October 28, 2011 Thieves, It's been 2 days since i found out my gf was in another relationship, I'm feeling raw and hurt.
Coupedriver Posted October 29, 2011 Posted October 29, 2011 To please come home....I cant seem to find a way to stop the tears....
marqueemoon4 Posted October 29, 2011 Posted October 29, 2011 1. To stop vilifying me 2. To stop rewriting history 3. To realize our son is NOT her property and that I'm just as important to him as she is not looking good on any of them
snug.bunny Posted October 29, 2011 Posted October 29, 2011 I want nothing for him. Like the lyrics from a song "I wanted words but all I got was nothing", so, I want the same for him in return...nothing.
Thieves Posted October 29, 2011 Posted October 29, 2011 Thieves, It's been 2 days since i found out my gf was in another relationship, I'm feeling raw and hurt. Fair enough. I'm sorry about that, Mcnulty. It's never easy in the beginning, believe me, I know.
Sugarkane Posted October 29, 2011 Posted October 29, 2011 therapy. (10 characters) Touché but when does the dumper ever do?
PositiveNegative Posted October 29, 2011 Posted October 29, 2011 I want her to know how much I've been hurting.
Sugarkane Posted October 29, 2011 Posted October 29, 2011 I just want my ex to get screwed over by someone.
Coupedriver Posted October 29, 2011 Posted October 29, 2011 Touché but when does the dumper ever do? Never...they think what they have done is ok with them,and will always see it like that.
fenderjames Posted October 29, 2011 Posted October 29, 2011 Sometimes I want to hear from her . Sometimes I want to be given the opportunity to completely ignore her ( as she did me ) . Sometimes I want to hold her hand . Sometimes I want to make her feel terrible about herself . Sometimes I want to find out she is full of regret . Sometimes I don't give a damn . This all happens within a 5 minute period and repeats itself the entire day . Anyone else out there spinning like this ?
ALittleBuzzyBee Posted October 29, 2011 Posted October 29, 2011 For him to realise that keeping me hanging on is killing me and that he needs to decide on his answer. I want him to be happy, but he needs to understand that I need to be happy too, and living like this is not making either of us happy.
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