Bobby289 Posted October 26, 2011 Posted October 26, 2011 Some of us want them to feel the pain we are in, others say whatever makes them happy since we still love them, or even both at times... What do you want?
69ways Posted October 26, 2011 Posted October 26, 2011 Her to get over depression and open her eyes........
LSgirl Posted October 26, 2011 Posted October 26, 2011 for him to miss me as much as I do and have him contact me (even if I don't plan on replying)
lorien Posted October 26, 2011 Posted October 26, 2011 For him to realize that my friendship is more valuable than that of the girl he cheated on me with, and for him to realize that if he wants me to get better he has to cut off all contact with her. Essentially, for him to show that he cares about me again even if this does not mean being in a relationship.
perfectlyflawed459 Posted October 26, 2011 Posted October 26, 2011 For him to grow up and realize that he is throwing away a girl that truly does love him, enough to even let him go and sacrifice her own happiness just to make him happy, for some dumb girl who has a "non committing" attitude and doesn't give a crap.
michelleishere Posted October 26, 2011 Posted October 26, 2011 Some of us want them to feel the pain we are in, others say whatever makes them happy since we still love them, or even both at times... What do you want? Depending on the day........... 1, to miss me 2. to call me 3. for him to get into a relationship and have his new partner treat him like he treated me 4. for him to realise the impact of what he did to me Then sometimes I don't care...... hopefully I will stop caring soon
Author Bobby289 Posted October 26, 2011 Author Posted October 26, 2011 I feel like most of us are on the same page here, just want to know we are not already forgotten or so easily replaced...
Author Bobby289 Posted October 26, 2011 Author Posted October 26, 2011 for him to miss me as much as I do and have him contact me (even if I don't plan on replying) Yeah that last part is tricky...
nyckidd Posted October 27, 2011 Posted October 27, 2011 Some of us want them to feel the pain we are in, others say whatever makes them happy since we still love them, or even both at times... What do you want? I would love for her to miss me so much and come back... so I could then lead her on and reject the hell out of her. Yea sounds harsh, cause it is.
Author Bobby289 Posted October 27, 2011 Author Posted October 27, 2011 I would love for her to miss me so much and come back... so I could then lead her on and reject the hell out of her. Yea sounds harsh, cause it is. Wish there was a like button on these forums sometimes lol
Deano8888 Posted October 27, 2011 Posted October 27, 2011 I must agree, I want her to miss me and want me as much as I do her Someone once said to me that it would have been easier on them if the person died than broke the relationship and moved on. It just really gets to me when you see them flirting with others and all that when they never put that effort in with you.
Thieves Posted October 27, 2011 Posted October 27, 2011 Some of us want them to feel the pain we are in, others say whatever makes them happy since we still love them, or even both at times... What do you want? I want him to remember me, but to be happy as well.
Thieves Posted October 27, 2011 Posted October 27, 2011 Current fitting song: Coldplay -Fix You Oh! And I like your signature, too.
missed_theboat Posted October 27, 2011 Posted October 27, 2011 I want him to be happy--with or without me. I want him to realize that he doesn't have to live with his anxiety, and that everything is going to be okay. I want him to know how strong he is for taking the chance to get better, and for making himself a priority, when he has put himself on the back-burner for so long. I want him to see that we can make it together--after he gets himself together. I want him to know I'll be there for him always.
AlisaMarie Posted October 27, 2011 Posted October 27, 2011 I just want my ex to know that it's cruel to create a love triangle and bounce through it for a year. Both of us ladies are weak saps... and he's a douche. The end.
Author Bobby289 Posted October 27, 2011 Author Posted October 27, 2011 I want him to be happy--with or without me. I want him to realize that he doesn't have to live with his anxiety, and that everything is going to be okay. I want him to know how strong he is for taking the chance to get better, and for making himself a priority, when he has put himself on the back-burner for so long. I want him to see that we can make it together--after he gets himself together. I want him to know I'll be there for him always. Mind me asking who ended it and how long ago? That sounds like you had a lot of time to reflect, just curious.
Author Bobby289 Posted October 27, 2011 Author Posted October 27, 2011 Oh! And I like your signature, too. Thanks! I get why people used to make mixtapes now during breakups, so glad someone who can sing better than I recorded these songs lol
Almond_Joy Posted October 27, 2011 Posted October 27, 2011 Some days I'm just inconsolably pissed, and want him to have to sit in a chair and listen to me tell him things that I know would hurt him for no other reason than to make him feel like ****....never had anyone make me so angry. Other days I want my ex to wake up with chest pains and difficulty breathing, with tears he can't hold back. I want him to be sad, sadder than he could ever imagine he could be. The last month or so, I've wished that he had the same intense, miserable grieving process that I had over the breakup. When I'm not wishing that....I don't feel/wish anything for him at all.
JohnP82 Posted October 27, 2011 Posted October 27, 2011 I want everything to work out well for her and to have a good life. The same thing I want for myself. However I never want to see or talk to her again.
Author Bobby289 Posted October 27, 2011 Author Posted October 27, 2011 Some days But most of the time I just want her to get better as well and love herself as much as I did/do.
missed_theboat Posted October 27, 2011 Posted October 27, 2011 Mind me asking who ended it and how long ago? That sounds like you had a lot of time to reflect, just curious. He ended it, less than a month ago. We have been talking during that whole time, although not everyday and he initiates most all contact. I definitely reflect on it a lot. I am heartbroken, but I cannot really feel anything but love for him, as he is a very special person and he deserves happiness, whether it is with me or not.
Author Bobby289 Posted October 27, 2011 Author Posted October 27, 2011 He ended it, less than a month ago. We have been talking during that whole time, although not everyday and he initiates most all contact. I definitely reflect on it a lot. I am heartbroken, but I cannot really feel anything but love for him, as he is a very special person and he deserves happiness, whether it is with me or not. Well that's good he initiates it, at least you know he is thinking about you. That takes a lot to be able to not be selfish about the whole thing, I admire that.
Damia Posted October 27, 2011 Posted October 27, 2011 Some days I'm just inconsolably pissed, and want him to have to sit in a chair and listen to me tell him things that I know would hurt him for no other reason than to make him feel like ****....never had anyone make me so angry. Other days I want my ex to wake up with chest pains and difficulty breathing, with tears he can't hold back. I want him to be sad, sadder than he could ever imagine he could be. The last month or so, I've wished that he had the same intense, miserable grieving process that I had over the breakup. When I'm not wishing that....I don't feel/wish anything for him at all. Yep ,I hope what goes round comes round 10fold!,well said Almond joy
Sugarkane Posted October 27, 2011 Posted October 27, 2011 For him to fall in love and get screwed over. For someone ti do what he does to others. My ex has never been the dumpee. I think its about time he was. Some people need to be dumped.most importantly for someone to leave him in the place, where he left me.
Sugarkane Posted October 27, 2011 Posted October 27, 2011 I would love for her to miss me so much and come back... so I could then lead her on and reject the hell out of her. Yea sounds harsh, cause it is. I know someone that ex did this to them. I was glad to see the person get their just deserts. The person totally deserved it. Wish it would happen more often.
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