ShannonMI Posted October 26, 2011 Posted October 26, 2011 Breaking news: Not putting out doesn't make you more valuable. In fact, quite the opposite, why do women think that selling a pound of potatoes at the price of a pound of gold actually makes it more valuable??? God bless sluts. The real ones, who are truly indiscriminate Most women are loose to some degree or another. I didn't say anything about not putting out. His approach at getting a chick to put out is not too appealing. Some women want to be romanced a little. It's not all about "hitting it" like this guy says. Treat her like a lady and your bound to get further then if you treat her like a ho. And truly indiscriminate sluts are what kind of girls? Girls that f*ck anything with a dick and have zero self esteem? Yeah those are some fine @ss ladies.
ShannonMI Posted October 26, 2011 Posted October 26, 2011 Yes, I figured. It's crass to say that to someone. "Hitting it" is slang guy talk. I can't imagine using that on someone I really liked. It's not an "it". No, it's not an "it" but guys that calling a woman's vagina that are pretty sleazy if you ask me. Especially if he is saying it to the girl he wants to bang. But some girls would eat that up I'm sure.
Author John Tucker Posted October 26, 2011 Author Posted October 26, 2011 i texted her that and it took awhile to reply but she said 'haha when will this occur ' ayyyeee !
silvermercy Posted October 26, 2011 Posted October 26, 2011 i texted her that and it took awhile to reply but she said 'haha when will this occur ' ayyyeee ! LOL See my previous post above!
AHardDaysNight Posted October 26, 2011 Posted October 26, 2011 i texted her that and it took awhile to reply but she said 'haha when will this occur ' ayyyeee ! So you have your answer. Have fun!
ShannonMI Posted October 26, 2011 Posted October 26, 2011 LOL See my previous post above! Yea we know what kind of chick this is. Good for you OP. Now you'll be getting some @ss. Make sure you wrap it up though!!:p
Author John Tucker Posted October 26, 2011 Author Posted October 26, 2011 why are you calling me OP lol i dont get it
ShannonMI Posted October 26, 2011 Posted October 26, 2011 why are you calling me OP lol i dont get it Original poster. The person who started the thread.
joystickd Posted October 26, 2011 Posted October 26, 2011 I would use different wording. It works because its a different approach than most men use. Some men use small talk and end up friends then use friendship to try to hit it. You cut small talk and got direct to the point. If a woman doesnt like it who the hell cares. All she has to do is say yes or no. That is what you are basically doing you know what you want and you expect a yes or no answer. Most men hate to do it because of the guilt trip most women give "All you want is sex!". There should be no shame in your desires.
Author John Tucker Posted October 26, 2011 Author Posted October 26, 2011 You have two reply options depending on the type of girl: Nice girl: "Get lost, you freak!" (either that, or total silence). Slutty girl: "When r u free!?!?" But what if she's a nice girl thats really into me? I plan to continue a relationship with her; i dont plan to jus gonna hit it and leave it.
ShannonMI Posted October 26, 2011 Posted October 26, 2011 But what if she's a nice girl thats really into me? I plan to continue a relationship with her; i dont plan to jus gonna hit it and leave it. What makes her a nice girl? Because she's willing to let you hit it? How many other guys has she let hit it? Have you been dating her or did you just meet her?
Author John Tucker Posted October 26, 2011 Author Posted October 26, 2011 What makes her a nice girl? Because she's willing to let you hit it? How many other guys has she let hit it? Have you been dating her or did you just meet her? I jus met her first week of october. i was talking about her in my previous thread.
ShannonMI Posted October 26, 2011 Posted October 26, 2011 I jus met her first week of october. i was talking about her in my previous thread. Oh yeah the one who was giving you the hot and cold treatment? Sounds like she's got a few other guys she's interested in. That's what I got from that thread. And didn't she post something on fb about finally finding someone great? Do you think that's you? After she ignored you and acted like she wasn't interested? I don't know.
Mme. Chaucer Posted October 26, 2011 Posted October 26, 2011 Ooh, that's a very seductive line. Who could resist?
missed_theboat Posted October 26, 2011 Posted October 26, 2011 LOL -- This is the situation a friend of mine is in. He met a girl online and she was already texting him pictures of herself nude after the 2nd day they "knew" each other. He asks me "Do you think I should see her again; I want a real, serious relationship... not just a booty call," and I said "Um, do you respect her?" "No..." "Ok, do you want to be in a relationship with a woman you don't respect?" "No..." "There's your answer."
AHardDaysNight Posted October 27, 2011 Posted October 27, 2011 I don't understand why the OP isn't being torn apart, as well as the girl? Both are sleazy for doing this.
carhill Posted October 27, 2011 Posted October 27, 2011 Based on the premise often offered and accepted here at LS that a woman knows immediately whether or not she will have sex with a man, the OP's premise evidently has traction amongst that subset of women who are affirmative in the sex department and with whom a direct approach is not a turnoff. He knew the lady...they had been talking a bit. She had already made her decision that he was a potential sex partner, at least based on her response to his direct approach. The worst that could happen is the 'slap in the face' verbally or physically and that, too, is an answer. He was drilling a dry hole. Gotta give these young guys credit for their pragmatism. Not my style but it definitely works for them.
Author John Tucker Posted October 27, 2011 Author Posted October 27, 2011 I don't understand why the OP isn't being torn apart, as well as the girl? Both are sleazy for doing this. heyyy im a respectable man. i'm smart, kind, honest, marketable, and ambitious.
Emilia Posted October 27, 2011 Posted October 27, 2011 heyyy im a respectable man. i'm smart, kind, honest, marketable, and ambitious. That poster is just jealous, don't worry about him. I went out with cheeky, direct boys where a relationship started with texts like that. I find a no-nonsense approach very refreshing and it doesn't intimidate me. Just another female's perspective
Emilia Posted October 27, 2011 Posted October 27, 2011 There's a certain type of girl that if she already thinks you're pretty hot, might respond well to it. Most here will tell you it will bomb, because the type of girl that would respond to it is not going to be spending time on a dating advice discussion board. Mostly true except in office hours taking a break from work
oaks Posted October 27, 2011 Posted October 27, 2011 I find a no-nonsense approach very refreshing and it doesn't intimidate me. Just another female's perspective Emilia, what's your number?
Emilia Posted October 27, 2011 Posted October 27, 2011 Emilia, what's your number? I knew the guy in person. I feel that's an important caveat to add
ShannonMI Posted October 27, 2011 Posted October 27, 2011 I don't understand why the OP isn't being torn apart, as well as the girl? Both are sleazy for doing this. Why aren't they getting torn apart? Well because some people just want sex. I guess theres nothing wrong with that. I mean people have needs and sometimes they are sexual ones. Some would consider it sleazy and others would just consider it wanting sex. It is what it is.
Woggle Posted October 27, 2011 Posted October 27, 2011 I have walked up to complete strangers and said it and 9 times out 10 it worked.
Pyro Posted October 27, 2011 Posted October 27, 2011 I have walked up to complete strangers and said it and 9 times out 10 it worked. If that was true then I would never recommend anyone I know live in Jersey. That has to be one of the lamest lines.
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