quietGuy13 Posted October 26, 2011 Posted October 26, 2011 (edited) The girl i've been going out and went to movies text me after a email i wrote where i said "that i felt our time in the movies felt like a date and that ireally enjoyed it etc" she said she always does that with her mail acquantainces. So there ya go. I think it's over. I thought she liked me and was beginning to like me more but apparently i'm just one of many guy friends. hehehe. that sucks Edited October 26, 2011 by quietGuy13
Lucky_One Posted October 26, 2011 Posted October 26, 2011 QG, most people have more than one friends. It's ok to be one of several/many. I am not sure what she texted you back; your post is unclear.
Yamaha Posted October 26, 2011 Posted October 26, 2011 I think it's over that sucks If you want romance from this girl you right, it's over.
Mrlonelyone Posted October 26, 2011 Posted October 26, 2011 "Her mail acquaintances"....so she has allot of pen pals huh? Rimshot You can do three things. 1forget her and fade to NC. (She knew what you thought it was and used you.) 2Tell her you were looking for more than an acquaintance (not even a friend....an acquaintance ouch) then go NC and move on. 3 Try to build up a closer friendship but make explicitly sexual moves. Touch her and talk to her in a sexual way. If she does not like that move on.
AHardDaysNight Posted October 26, 2011 Posted October 26, 2011 Wait, she felt like it was a date, yet she has many guys that make her feel that way?? This is confusing. Either she's dating several guys at once, or she is a whore. I don't understand where you're going with this, Quietguy?
Mrlonelyone Posted October 26, 2011 Posted October 26, 2011 Wait, she felt like it was a date, yet she has many guys that make her feel that way?? This is confusing. Either she's dating several guys at once, or she is a whore. I don't understand where you're going with this, Quietguy? That's a little extreme. Calling here a "whore" makes it sound like she's screwing all those people. A very likely possibility is that she has lots of male friends which in and of itself is not bad. What I would want to know is...is this woman only involved in one sided "friendships". You know, basically she wants people there to validate and support her and listen to her but she never even gives back any of those things? Ask yourself as a friend is she a good friend?
Lucky_One Posted October 26, 2011 Posted October 26, 2011 Guys, this is a woman from a foreign country who came here to study. Her use of the world 'acquaintance' may be nothing more than learning it as a synonym for friend. Give ESL speakers a break, huh? MrLonely, QG is learning about socializing. I doubt he knows how to act smoothly in a explicitly sexual way. Let's let him start from scratch, shall we?
AHardDaysNight Posted October 26, 2011 Posted October 26, 2011 Guys, this is a woman from a foreign country who came here to study. Her use of the world 'acquaintance' may be nothing more than learning it as a synonym for friend. Give ESL speakers a break, huh? MrLonely, QG is learning about socializing. I doubt he knows how to act smoothly in a explicitly sexual way. Let's let him start from scratch, shall we? Ah, I forgot that. Yeah, she probably is loosely using the term "boyfriends." I used to have a Russian friend who would do the same thing (aka, any guy she met that she liked, either romantically or non-romantically, was a "boy"friend.) I think, now, that she was just commenting on the fact that she liked the closeness that you two shared. Not that she wants to jump your bones, but that she liked you, in a non-sexual way, and it might turn to sexual, if she feels that way. Either way, QG, you need to start responding to your own threads. Sometimes I wonder if you know how? If you do, please (please please!) comment on our responses. It's an internet relationship advice forum, ya know?
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