Approaching someone on facebook tips! (without looking like a facebook stalker)

[Jandrews]

Hey guys,

 

I have a someone on my facebook that I would really like to start talking to, but I don't know how go about it. Some people might think approaching someone on facebook is a bit cheesey but how else am I gunna be able to talk to her.

 

I just don't know how to start conversation without looking like one of those weird facebook stalkers. any help will be great cheers!

[Mrlonelyone]

If you are already FB friends with that person then just ask to meet them. You already should have some kind of an at least friendly acquaintance at this point. Just ask them to meet for coffe, or a casual meal, or to an activity of some kind.

 

If they are interested in something more they will show up, if not then move on.

 

If they aren't interested and label you a "stalker" for asking them out then it says more about them. It says they are the kind of person who friends on FB but does not really want to hear from people. Something about that rubs me the wrong way. Perhaps because it's a one sided sort of thing where they talk at you.

[Jandrews]

we are not really friend friends lol I added her mainly cos shes FIT. I've never spoke to her in my life so I can't really go do you want to meet up sometime

[Mrlonelyone]

FIT? As in good shape?

 

She accepted you as a friend though....so there could be some interest on her part. The only way to know is to ask her out. If she is not interested and says no then move on. The only sure way to loose is not to ask.