Author Tibby321 Posted December 23, 2011 Author Posted December 23, 2011 A private detective is expensive. Dont wont to involve friends untill I know what the situation is for sure. I feel i dont have a marriage. He is not interested in me physically. This has been since we married. He seems only to be physical to appease me and I've given up now. May be i am just security financally and that is why he married me. He is very good to me in some ways and says he loves me with all his heart. That he is looking forward to being together once our homes are sold and we have a place together. He said that both properties need to be on the market end of Jan. He wonted me to put mine on market in the summer. I said no, not untill yours is too as I could not be in a position where my two children had no where to come home from university to. He was very annoyed about that and there was a shift in how he is with me since then. I went to 'Relate' last night for advice and the response from them was not good. I have been told to be extremely cautious. Finding this all very difficult as i felt he was a most lovely person and I fell for him and love him.
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