theratandthecat Posted October 26, 2011 Posted October 26, 2011 We broke up a month ago; but she kept pushing and pulling me. This is a LDR, but we did meet in the summer when we hooked up and I met her last weekend on a prearranged trip. But she acted all distant, so I deleted her as a friend on facebook then ( a week ago). We seemed to have ended it finally on a good term, but I still want her back. Now I have two facebooks, and around several days after I unfriended her on one, she defriended me on the other. I know I had made a mistake of defriending her, making me appear childish and immature, but I do want the girl back. When and should I add her back on facebook?
Bobby289 Posted October 26, 2011 Posted October 26, 2011 When you are ready to see things you don't want to and can handle that. Facebook is not reality, remember that.
MizHoney2U Posted October 26, 2011 Posted October 26, 2011 Maybe you need to use FB NC for a while. Leave her un-friended on both for a while since you were the one who initiated it... bad look to change it right away.
Eddie Edirol Posted October 26, 2011 Posted October 26, 2011 Youre most likely not going to get her back anyway, so dont bother adding her. if you did, it would make you look more immature that you cant make a firm decision. if you dont, it might make her more curious about you that youve moved on and dont need her. So dont ever add her on either of your fbs.
Art_Critic Posted October 26, 2011 Posted October 26, 2011 Don't add her ever.. how will you explain to your new GF that your ex is still on your friends list ?
Author theratandthecat Posted October 26, 2011 Author Posted October 26, 2011 I still love her and want to get back with her
Art_Critic Posted October 26, 2011 Posted October 26, 2011 We seemed to have ended it finally on a good term The only way you can get an ex back is move on with your life.. date others and if it was meant to be then you guys will find a way back to each other.. You both have to get over each other and grow before you could ever come back together... Sorry...
Author theratandthecat Posted October 26, 2011 Author Posted October 26, 2011 Right. So I'm moving on, but I want her to see I'm moving on, by not being immature as to defriending her on facebook. I want her to see all the fun I've been getting after break up. Hmm, I intend to add her back a week after this, should that be a good idea?
MizHoney2U Posted October 26, 2011 Posted October 26, 2011 I still love her and want to get back with her Trust me I understand and and feel the same way about my Ex..... but as life would have it... I gotta wait it out and either he'll come to his senses or I will move on.
Eddie Edirol Posted October 26, 2011 Posted October 26, 2011 Right. So I'm moving on, but I want her to see I'm moving on, by not being immature as to defriending her on facebook. I want her to see all the fun I've been getting after break up. Hmm, I intend to add her back a week after this, should that be a good idea? Shes never going to get back with you, she wont care that youre moving on. She probably moved on to someone else, so she wont read your fb even if you did add her. Like I said, you will be seen as even more immature if you to re-add her, because you cant stick to your original decision. if youre having fun, she will hear about it eventually. Dont worry about her and work on finding a new gf.
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