VeggieFiend Posted October 25, 2011 Posted October 25, 2011 My ex boyfriend and I broke up because things just felt...different and we couldn't fix things. We dated for a year and a half. We still love each other and have now been officially broken up for a week and four days. We met up on the Tuesday after we broke up and found ourselves unable to stop hugging and having some kisses, but we agreed that breaking up was best and this will stop eventually. We also agreed that we should be single for a while and not go out with anyone else too quickly (and we also agreed to let each other know if they were interested in anyone FIRST). I today asked just as a topic of conversation if he was interested in anyone to which he said "...erm...a bit >.<". I was surprised and the more I heard the angrier I got. Basically, he started liking her the day after we met up, they also pecked goodnight and I didnt hear this til now. They have only known each other two months, and I have known him 5 years. I just feel so...betrayed. All of this was behind my back, and he is usually such a nice guy. He feels very bad for it and when we called to talk, he cried. He doesnt want to lose me but does like this girl who I met once or twice when we were dating. He always thinks of other people, and now he says he needs to think of himself (basically, he like her). But he says he doesnt want to lose me and thats whats holding him back. We still love each other and I told him that isnt fair to this girl either, but she knows about us. I started physically shaking when we talked I was so upset. A reason we broke up was because he wanted to see me more but I couldnt fit in more time because I live at home with my mum (im 18, he's 19). Now he found someone he can see loads and it just seems like he's replacing me with her (a rebound girl). Im so sorry for the long message...but what do I...we do? Thanks
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