nyckidd Posted October 25, 2011 Posted October 25, 2011 3 weeks after we break up my ex is already talking to someone else. So weird, I never thought she would be that type of person especially after what went down after the breakup and what she said (you can see in my other threads). Now I see they went to the movies together, and she went down to his place etc. It's good in a way because now I can officially call it quits and move on. I would never take her back after all this. Just can't believe that's the type of girl she is after 2 1/2 years. Anyone in a similar situation?
headsashed Posted October 25, 2011 Posted October 25, 2011 It took my ex 4 weeks after our break up to sleep with someone else,we were together for 2 years,i never thought she was that type of person,she was shy etc. But it does give you more of a reason to move on.
MizHoney2U Posted October 25, 2011 Posted October 25, 2011 I can only think of 2 reasons why... 1. they were interested before the break-up or 2. trying to get over the last one.... at any rate, I think it's still in the rebound phase which we all know is a bad move... why do ppl think they're immune from being on the rebound just because they actually leave one for another? and what is the new person thinking if they know the ex just ended one?
norajane Posted October 25, 2011 Posted October 25, 2011 People move on, in whatever way they can. Not everyone dwells on break-ups. I think it's time you stopped tracking what your ex is doing. No good comes of that, really, except to torture yourself with information. Focus on your own life and living.
Deano8888 Posted October 25, 2011 Posted October 25, 2011 The above post is right, you need to stop tracking her. You are only hurting yourself, trust me I done it myself. I know it must be hurting and feel like you have be stabbed, but focus on you and your needs. And yes in my opinion I think it is pretty cruel to move on so quickly, but you can't control others
Art_Critic Posted October 25, 2011 Posted October 25, 2011 People move on, in whatever way they can. Not everyone dwells on break-ups. I think it's time you stopped tracking what your ex is doing. No good comes of that, really, except to torture yourself with information. Focus on your own life and living. Indeed.....
Author nyckidd Posted October 25, 2011 Author Posted October 25, 2011 Yea I have def decided to move on, even though a part of me wants to say something to her just so she knows how shallow she is
isolatedman Posted October 26, 2011 Posted October 26, 2011 Wife told me 3 days ago that she is with someone else. Finally admitted it. She was seeing that person since June/July, went out of town to meet with him in around that time. I knew it was suspicious. So since June she was cheating on me, I even had sex with her plenty of times after that! June was when I had to move out for a job. Since then, she started changing, being disrepectful to me. Perfect timing for her to do whatever she wants since I'm not around. We have 3 kids. Sucks. She's the biggest cheat and liar. She told me she want to let me go, told that to me in July. I still fought for her, thinking it was just me being mean that she didn't like, but turned out she liked someone else was the reason to let me go. :lmao::lmao:
lorien Posted October 26, 2011 Posted October 26, 2011 I know exactly how you feel; my boyfriend of almost 10 months broke up with me after he cheated on me with this older girl he'd known for less than two weeks. He said he was planning on avoiding her after that, but now (hardly a month later) they're good friends which makes it feel like he never even cared about me at all...
Eddie Edirol Posted October 26, 2011 Posted October 26, 2011 3 weeks after we break up my ex is already talking to someone else. So weird, I never thought she would be that type of person especially after what went down after the breakup and what she said (you can see in my other threads). Now I see they went to the movies together, and she went down to his place etc. It's good in a way because now I can officially call it quits and move on. I would never take her back after all this. Just can't believe that's the type of girl she is after 2 1/2 years. Anyone in a similar situation? Sorry to break it to you, but she was probably talkin to that guy before she broke it off with you. he might have been the reason she broke it off. This happens all the time around here. people think that their ex wouldnt be like that, but it happens practically every time.
Rorschach64 Posted October 26, 2011 Posted October 26, 2011 4 days after my ex fiancee broke up with me, she falsely accused me of cheating on her, I found out she ' already found someone else' , her exact words to her friend which the friend told me. Crap storm followed after I confronted her. Thought my ex f wouldn't ever do that in a million years, but here I am.
Author nyckidd Posted October 27, 2011 Author Posted October 27, 2011 Sorry to break it to you, but she was probably talkin to that guy before she broke it off with you. he might have been the reason she broke it off. This happens all the time around here. people think that their ex wouldnt be like that, but it happens practically every time. Yea your probably right, even if I confronted her she probably wouldn't tell me the truth.
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