I really hate my ex.....listen to what people tell you in there replies

[YssaBoo]

Well hey everyone who has reading my posts about my ex,it's officially done!!!! After the last post that I was going to tell him no more,I couldn't and felt bad.He kept saying I don't want to lose you and just because I can't tell you things,doesn't mean I don't care....What a loser

 

He came over sat after telling me he had plans for Fri and Sun. but we could do something on Sat night..I changed my plans and waited for him to call.Finally around 8 he called and I said lets go to a movie,he said he was broke and tired but would do a movie at my house..He had alot of chances to tell me what was on his mind,but waited til my parents came in and after about a half an hour went and talked to my mom....in private.

 

She said he wanted a moms opinion,because he had been seeing someone else and he did not want to lose me...She said she just stared at him and said to get the h*ll out of the house and don't come back. My parents told him 3 times to not contact me and he stood outside and told me that he would see me at the Y and email me....I said I still love you(like a fool) and he kept calling my name to come back and I shut the door behind me..

 

His sis told me the next day she talked to his mom and I guess she has alot of money and has PERFECT teeth,which my bottoms are a little crooked,not bad...

I have never been so humiliated and deflated in my life...I remember when we started dating he said he hated rich little brats that get brand new cars for graduation and that she is....He is graduating from a modeling school and that is where he met her and that is when our problems started.She is in high school yet and lives 40 min.away..He told me that night it probably wouldn't work out...why would he tell me that????????I don't care

 

Well I got revenge...I told my parents that we had been having sex at his house and he is never supposed to have me over when they were gone..They told my dad that they have questioned him about it and he denied it...I have proof....I went to a doctor for some problems and it is documented that I have...

 

He was my first and me his and I think that is why it was so hard to let go....Now I feel so used and crappy....One night on the phone before we broke up he called me a whore and that hurt....Why can guys do that stuff and they're studs and girls do it and they are whores????

 

So to all you people out there who have broken up....when we tell you to move on and find someone else...do it..life is too short to wait for a loser....

[shellgranado]

now stick to your guns hes going to do everything in his power to get you back no matter how good it sounds say no you know that saying (say no to drugs) well hes a drug just remember to say no he will mess up your life (like drugs do )

he will cost you money (like drugs do ) he'll make you say and act stupid (like drugs do ) our first is a hard one to let go of and get over but you have to move on you have to fight with all your strength and might to keep him out of your life

you can do it go girl

[YssaBoo]

Thanks!!I'll do my darndest,its so hard;you do the same with your situation.If we all have each other here,we can get through this...P.S. I love your kitty pic,is it yours?

[shellgranado]

no theres a web site you go on hhttp://www.mess.be/

they have 1,00s free avatars

no i have 1 cat polydactyl or some people call it hemmingway kitty it has extra toes

but other than that i have 3 dogs sibrian husky ,wolf hybrid.pitbull oh i must not forget the ucky pet a burmese pythonn belonging to my 11 yr old daughter

[YssaBoo]

I have 3 black cats,maybe that's why I have such bad luck at relationships J/K.

[Becks84]

Good for you! But like "shellgranado" said, stick to your guns! It may be very hard right now but one day you will be stronger than ever, and so proud of yourself, and you will look back and be thankful that you no longer feel this way. You are going to find yourself with someone much better for you, and you will be in such a great situation, that you may even be able to look back on all of this pain you feel right now, and laugh.

 

You probably feel as if you cant see past being miserable right now, but it's only a matter of time!! Keep faith that there is a plan for you and you will find true happiness!

 

He sounds no good...he's not good enough for you or to you. Who is he to make you feel like less of a person than you are? Maybe not in his words, but he's doing it with his actions. YOu dont need that! YOu need to get back to you and start taking care of only yourself. Learn to completely love yourself and realize what an amazing person you are and how worthy you are of a great love and a great relationship. The rest will fall into place! Best wishes!

-becks