honeydrip Posted October 25, 2011 Posted October 25, 2011 (edited) For 7 whole months he was trying to get me to be his girlfriend and he even proposed to me several times through-out this time. I finally agreed to be his woman and even said yes to his proposal. Not long after, like a couple of days, he suddenly changed on me. All of the things he used to say that turned him on about me, he says he can't deal with anymore. He used to say that my smart sassy mouth was a turn on to him. He said he loved me even though I was spoiled and bratty. He used to say stuff like that would cause me to get spanked and he liked it. BUT! as soon as I agreed to give him my heart and told him I loved him back and be his woman, he can't stand my "spoiled bratty butt" and he can't deal with my ways or my mouth. He broke up with me several times already over this. He now says I'm too much drama but before I was his woman and he was chasing me he said he loved it and me and just the way I am. I just don't understand how he can change like that, when I haven't changed at all, he knew that's me and what I'm about. Does anyone have any insight on this 180? He also has told me that he loves me and he would do just about anything for me but he just can't be with me anymore or my ways. I'm just feel so betrayed for some reason like he played me or something but for what? My emotions? An ego boost? Was this a game? Edited October 25, 2011 by honeydrip
BLuvv Posted October 25, 2011 Posted October 25, 2011 I'm sorry to hear about that. I don't know what could make someone change like that either. I just hope you feel better! I don't know what else to say, I'm hurting so much right now too and I hate it so much. I wouldn't wish this pain on anyone.
MizHoney2U Posted October 25, 2011 Posted October 25, 2011 For 7 whole months he was trying to get me to be his girlfriend and he even proposed to me several times through-out this time. I finally agreed to be his woman and even said yes to his proposal. Not long after, like a couple of days, he suddenly changed on me. All of the things he used to say that turned him on about me, he says he can't deal with anymore. He used to say that my smart sassy mouth was a turn on to him. He said he loved me even though I was spoiled and bratty. He used to say stuff like that would cause me to get spanked and he liked it. BUT! as soon as I agreed to give him my heart and told him I loved him back and be his woman, he can't stand my "spoiled bratty butt" and he can't deal with my ways or my mouth. He broke up with me several times already over this. He now says I'm too much drama but before I was his woman and he was chasing me he said he loved it and me and just the way I am. I just don't understand how he can change like that, when I haven't changed at all, he knew that's me and what I'm about. Does anyone have any insight on this 180? He also has told me that he loves me and he would do just about anything for me but he just can't be with me anymore or my ways. I'm just feel so betrayed for some reason like he played me or something but for what? My emotions? An ego boost? Was this a game? It seems that he was on an adrenaline rush with the thrill of the chase... and once he got it and possibly conquered it... the thrill is gone.... better try NC.... been there and done that....
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