down_out Posted October 25, 2011 Posted October 25, 2011 Now this took place in my native country. We are fresh out of college. We join ed the same company along with 30 others. Thats when i first met her. We exchanged numbers and would text each other everyday. Now there was this other guy, my roommate who was loaded. Soon she found out that this dude was rich and started hittin on him and they would text each other all the time which would make me all jealous. I even see them makin out right in front of me and that image is still there in my mind and it kills me. Thing is this dude sucks, other than money he aint got nothin. But he sat me down one day and claimed to be a superstud and told me abt how he's so good with girls nd stuff and that pissed me off. After 3 months we are all transferred to different cities. Me and her in city A and him in city B. He comes over and stays with her every weekend, sometimes we all hangout as frenz. But still, shes always rude to me whenever we spoke, cudnt figure out why. 6 months go by and I reveal that I am an American resident and i leave. In my native country its kinda big to be in the US, It means lotsa money. She pings me on facebook one day when Im in the US saying she misses me a lot n stuff which was a far cry from the rude behaviour I had to endure before. Thats when I got the idea that shes a mini gold-digger. And i was proven right, cuz when I came back after a month she was all over me. Texting me all the time, pinging all the time and yeah holdin hands and a lil bit of touchin here and there. Before we never hung out alone, her bf would always be there. Now, it was just the two of us hangin out all the time. But even when she was out with me she would call her bf up and would tell him that she loved him. I noticed her interest weaning after a couple of weeks, so I told her that I love her. She said I meant a lot to her nd all that crap but only as a friend. Even after I told her that we would still hang out and do all this little physical stuff at the movies and in the car. But she kept saying no. Then one day she calls me and tells me that her bf saw my txts and he asks her not to meet me. So now its us just texting and pinging but she keeps saying no to me when I ask for an answer. Then her bf moves to the city where we stay. Then one day i tell her that I'm leavin the country cuz she keeps sayin no and I cant continue livin in this city anymore cuz of everything that happened. Then one day she tried to pick a fight with me on our company mail and we had this huge fight where her bf was in cc. She lied her ass off and claimed that it was all my fault and tht she respects her bf so much. Then i leave the country and come to the US and we again pick a fight over fb and i deleted her from fb. Its been NC for 4 months and its killing me. I dont know how to get over her. I know what she is and what she does to people but I still cant get over her. Its killin me. She is coming to the US for higher studies next year. Her bf is coming too I guess. What should I expect?
MizHoney2U Posted October 25, 2011 Posted October 25, 2011 Keep it NC. This girl is dangerous for your mental health (sanity), your physical health, and your emotional health. You should look at her as a deadly poison and be glad you survived the dose you took...(willingly) and NC is the only antidote. If you continue to even speak to her it would seem that you are a glutton for punishment. I don't in any way intend to be rude or harsh, but I'm giving it to you the same way I would want it... raw...from the outside look'n in, with no bias's... the truth as I see it. treat yourself as you're your own son... what would you want him to do? Would you want to see him in a cycle of insanity with a girl that is not deserving of his love? You answer that for yourself. Be well and good luck
PegNosePete Posted October 25, 2011 Posted October 25, 2011 ^ ^ Couldn't have said it better myself MizHoney. Totally agree. She is bad news - steer clear. If you've been NC for 4 months how do you know she is coming to the US?
Author down_out Posted October 25, 2011 Author Posted October 25, 2011 well...that was the plan and a common friend confirmed it. I kinda fb stalked her once and she looked hotter than before. And it all came back to me.
Author down_out Posted October 27, 2011 Author Posted October 27, 2011 I am trying to be strong but failing miserably
Author down_out Posted October 31, 2011 Author Posted October 31, 2011 Another question is... she was hittin on me to start with, then why did she say no when i admitted that i liked her. My best guess is she was still not sure whether I was gonna stay back, so she wanted some time to figure that out, cuz if she said yes to me and I left, her boyfriend would also leave her and be alone.
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