bdbmwer Posted October 25, 2011 Posted October 25, 2011 WOO just got done with the meeting and it went if not perfect then pretty close to it in my eyes. but ill share so the wise ones can pass judgement. this meet was initiated after a month of NC and her attempting to contact me multiple times and after i texted her telling her i wasnt hanging out with her friends to make her jealous she was replying instantly and hinting that she missed me. So i organized for this meeting like 5 days ago As we exited class she seemed like she didnt know what to think and was like "whatd you want to talk about?" in a cold tone but i responded in a confident nice tone and told her she looked goodand she thanked me and opened right up from there. We engaged in small talk and brought up old funny things that we had between us in the past like "the face". I kept the tone light and fun and she was laughing repeatedly. The whole meeting took around 30 minutes and near the end it started getting more serious as she began talking about the issue of me hanging with her friends and at first she was hostile and was like "im going to hang out with taylor(my best friend who I have a lot of resentment towards for always pursuing my girls and she knows that)" but I shruged it off and explained to her that It was never intentional to harm her in any way and i was just going with the flow. I told her that I understand though and that id be upset too if I were in her shoes and I would stop hanging out with them if shed like. at this point she became much nicer and was like sorry im not trying to be a [COLOR=#fa7777]* [/COLOR][COLOR=#fa7777]* [/COLOR][COLOR=#fa7777]* [/COLOR][COLOR=#fa7777]* [/COLOR][COLOR=#fa7777]* [/COLOR] it just got on my nerves idk why i brought it up and I told her it was ok that you should say whats on your mind so that it gets fixed(to let her know that im always open to listen and work with her) She agreed with me and then asked how we started hanging out anyways and responded positively to my explenation but then brought up a particular instance where i was with her friend and mine and had the option of going to the club where everyone i knew was or going to a party where her,her new bf, and all her friends were. apparantly the friend i was with told her I didnt want to go to where she was BECAUSE her and her BF were there. But i explained to her that i wasnt avoiding her just all my friends were at the club and she seemed to accept my answer and chalk it up to her friend just wording it differently. then she straight up tested me and said " and chase(her new guy) was there does that bother you?" I replied with "nope whatever makes you happy" and smiled . so I made sure to change the tone from serious back to fun stuff with a bit more light convo then ended the meeting by saying I had to go check up on my mother in the hospital . We hugged and I said it was nice seeing her which she mirrored. As I was leaving she said "see you at the club tomorrow!" and then texted me right after we parted ways with "does this mean we can be fb friends now?" I replied with "yea thats fine" I know I shouldnt expect this to mean anything but I cant help but feel good at how it went. If anything I might have oversold myself a bit but i have truly been up to a LOT since the break. thoughts? what did i do wrong? also noteworthy is she looked much more done up than she usually does and she also pointed out my new clothes and shoes.
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