isolatedman Posted October 24, 2011 Posted October 24, 2011 Hey all, I've been in a relationship for 11+ years and have 3 kids with this woman. I didn't really show her love and affection. Long story short, I moved to different state for a job and she stayed with the kids. Ever since I moved out, she started to be distant from me and she didn't feel like driving down anymore to see me bringing along the kids, telling me to go there instead. But one day she came over and had something to tell me. She wanted to let me go. Too many other things had also happened which I won't mentioned, but I found out from my son, that she is seeing someone. All the while she tells me to change to see if she would come back to me. I changed and she saw that but it didn't do nothing to her because she was seeing another man, possibly more than one. So the same day I found out from my son, she tells me straight out that she is with someone. I wanted to tallk to her about that and took it from my head, wow! She was drunk too when she told me that. She also said she loves me but don't want to be with me, saying it will be the same thing over and over again. She now go out all the time. That's why when I'm in town to see my kids, she doesn't make an effort to see me, she busy with her new fling and partying with her new friends. She keeps telling me to move on, it's so hard to do when I have young kids with her. I know it's over, she has lied so many times, didn't tell me she was with someone, at the same time keeping me around for nothing. I kept trying to win her back before I found her she was with someone. She kept pushing away, saying it will not be the same anymore (love that she had for me). It's not fair I'm trying to make it work, but she dates??! Cheating!! I am hurt, lost, jealous, angry, sad, distressed, lonely. I am trying to do NC now.
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