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[justchecking]

I just think this tust issue with the facebook/phone contact is... . why lie to me about it ?

I have seen other guys message her on facebook before and she will not talk to them. She will just sign offline or simply say hey im busy be right back.....

I have seen in one instance a guy messaged her from high school. they started talking and he asked what she was doing over the weekend.. she replied "I'm happily married and I dont feel right talking to you"

 

But now. here she was 4 months ago talking to a guy . why talk to him to be nice, when she hasnt talked to other guys to be nice ?

[stillafool]

I don't think your wife is having an affair on you. She may have enjoyed talking to this guy while on the trip and he enjoyed talking to her. I don't think she would have been careless enough to leave his number in the book if she were trying to hide something. I do think you are overly jealous because you don't get the SEX and attention from her you crave. I think you should tell her this. Sex is a very important part of marriage and she shouldn't discount the importance of it to you. Your son should not sleep in your bed and you should object to that as well.

 

You need to calm down, go home and talk to her - Calmly.

[Nikki82]

It sounds to me that you are insecure and always expecting to be hurt.

Has she or someone in your past hurt you before?

 

Have you questioned her loyalty before? If so, she may honestly be getting fed up with trying to prove herself to you.

 

To me, this sounds minor. Your insecurities are not attractive.

Leaving the house to sleep elsewhere is only driving you 2 further apart.

 

Unless she has a history of hurting you, you really need to gain some self esteem because your own flaws (insecurity) will destroy your marriage.