TheSingleGuy Posted October 24, 2011 Posted October 24, 2011 I never date online, I only ask out women I've met in real life. So I meet a girl, we get into good conversation, at least an hour or more, usually, before I ask for the number. I never have a problem getting numbers. But often times, more than 50% of the time, I end up getting blown off in phone game. One of the most recent dead ends I've encountered, actually, with the last two women I've pursued, is this: I call them up, she answers the phone, we start talking...then she says "Hey, I'm in the middle of blah, blah, blah. Can I call you right back?" Of course, I know this drill all too well. They never call back. And the problem is, women are repulsed by the desperate guy, but when they put me in this situation, the only way I can pursue through this is to make myself look like the desperate loser. Seriously, what self respecting guy is gonna call her back again after that kind of ****ty ass treatment??? So going forward, after I get a girl's number, I'll call them up. Once they are finally on the phone, I'm gonna be the first to pull this stunt. After about a minute of conversation, I'm gonna end the call with "Hey, I'm in the middle of blah, blah, blah...can I call you right back?" Then, I won't call back for 2 or 3 days. I think this will have a better chance of getting into the girl's head. Anyway, I'm gonna try it out and see what happens. It can't be any worse than what I've been running into "just being myself". "Just being myself" gets me blown off my way too many women who really have no business blowing me off in the first place. With dating, it seems like the first one to show lack of interest always has the upper hand. He who cares less wins.
oaks Posted October 24, 2011 Posted October 24, 2011 then she says "Hey, I'm in the middle of blah, blah, blah. Can I call you right back?" Of course, I know this drill all too well. They never call back. And the problem is, women are repulsed by the desperate guy, but when they put me in this situation, the only way I can pursue through this is to make myself look like the desperate loser. No. The problem is that those women aren't interested in you anyway. (but, yes, doing something to make yourself look desperate won't be great either). So going forward, after I get a girl's number, I'll call them up. Once they are finally on the phone, I'm gonna be the first to pull this stunt. After about a minute of conversation, I'm gonna end the call with "Hey, I'm in the middle of blah, blah, blah...can I call you right back?" Then, I won't call back for 2 or 3 days. I think this will have a better chance of getting into the girl's head. Anyway, I'm gonna try it out and see what happens. It can't be any worse than what I've been running into "just being myself". "Just being myself" gets me blown off my way too many women who really have no business blowing me off in the first place. With dating, it seems like the first one to show lack of interest always has the upper hand. He who cares less wins. There is at least a grain of truth about the value of caring less, but do you really think that the solution to finding women who aren't interested in you is to deliberately play games with other women? That's a childish way to behave.
Kaplan Posted October 24, 2011 Posted October 24, 2011 I can see it now: [Ring ring!] Girl: Hello? SingleGuy: Hi! It's SingleGuy. Girl: Oh, hi SG, how are you? SingleGuy: I'm in the middle of something can I call you right back? Girl: [Dial tone . . . . ] It doesn't work when you're the one who called them! At least say, "Something came up," or something like that. Better yet, say, "OMG, someone needs CPR, I'll call you right back!"
oaks Posted October 24, 2011 Posted October 24, 2011 It doesn't work when you're the one who called them! Good point. It makes so little sense that TheSingleGuy must be trolling us. And I fell for it.
Author TheSingleGuy Posted October 24, 2011 Author Posted October 24, 2011 (edited) No, I'll get them on the phone and talk for a few minutes and then I'll say, very excitedly, "OMG! ****!... Hey, can I call you right back?" I have to start doing this every time, regardless of how well the conversation might be going. And then, of course, I won't call back until like 3 days later. I think this might get under the girl's skin just a little. At least I hope it works. What have I got to lose? These women are attracted to me when they meet me. Then I phone them up two days later and I'm getting blown off. It really makes me angry with all women and makes me seriously hate all women. I mean, I love women, but I f***'in hate them. This girl I'm dating now, I plan to dump her by text message a day or two before Christmas with no explanation. Just like these women all blow me off with no explanation, when I dump a girl, they never get an explanation. They don't deserve it...just for being women. If these women could TELL me WHY they are blowing me off, that would make all the difference in the world. I mean, just a little insight like "Oh, I really have a boyfriend and now I feel guilty for flirting with you" or "I just didn't like the way you acted and here is the specific example of what I'm talking about...." Anything. Just TELL ME WHY. When a girl gets dumped, she feels entitled to an explanation. Nope. Not any more. Not from me. A simple text message "Hey, I want a divorce. I'm sorry." No more explanation than that. Just radio silence from there on out. She'll never see me again. Edited October 24, 2011 by TheSingleGuy
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