breadandbutter Posted October 24, 2011 Posted October 24, 2011 Back in Jan my brother wanted to introduce me to a not so close freind of his, someone he knows of, hes a few years older than me and in a professional career, also of the same background as me. I checked his facebook profile and thought he wasnt bad looking. I however at that time was not ready to contact him. My brother did tell him of me though. A few months passed and I put myself onto a dating website. After flicking through profiles I came across his, although at this point I still did not make contact. So in Mid may I finally decided to go for broke and make contact via facebook after repeated pressure from my folks to find a guy. A few days had passed and I had heard nothing, my freind told me to forget it move on and keep looking for other guys on the website, in which I did. Three weeks had passed. I logged on to the dating website and decided to make a few changes to my profile ....mainly picture (and just before you think im ugly, im definalty not-the first profile pic was adequate and was getting me plently of interest-note this was also my profile pic on fb) and I changed a few details on the kind of guy im looking for. I noticed immediately the type of guys checking me had changed (ie same religion, height,diet,) a few days ago I logged onto the website again and noticed he was on the chat facility (i was invisible so he could not see me), then all of a sudden I received a facebook message from him saying i hope you dont mind me contacting you, heres my number and your brother did tell me about you and that he lived close by. Now im thinking should i make contact or not....why did it take 3 weeks for him to reply, he has an iphone and his facebook wall is visible, so he is clearly checking his messages, and why was he on the dating website and then make contact esp after i had changed my pic and profile ......what should I do??? Update: Since writing the above, I did get a phone call from him in July, however I was at the airport about to go on holiday. I said I would contact him when I get back. He tried to facebook friend me, but I did not accept so soon. I contacted him when I returned did just that and we chatted for a bit, hes a doctor, has his own practice. Anyhow he said his brother was getting married that summer, he asked me If I would like to meet up for drinks, in which I said yes. He said he would call me….Three months had passed…no call. Around early October, I deactivated my facebook account completely. My mom hinted to my brother about this guys wearabouts, I am assuming my brother must have contacted him as on the Monday evening I got a call from him, however I rejected the call because I was busy. He has not called back. All I want to know is should I text him to meet up, is he interested enough in seeing me or just going through the motions seeing as there was no contact for such a long time [FONT=Times New Roman][sIZE=3] [/sIZE][/FONT]
Author breadandbutter Posted November 1, 2011 Author Posted November 1, 2011 anyone have any advice ?
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