rnl Posted October 24, 2011 Posted October 24, 2011 Hi everyone. I was looking for some advice about my ex. After 3 years of being together, we broke up at the end of last year. It was a nasty break up, lots of things said that shouldnt, etc. anyways, she moved out and still was texting me wanting to know what i was doing etc. I decided enough and cut her off. No contact via text, facebook, nothing. About a month ago out of the blue she texts me in the middle of the night obviously as she is driving by my(her old) house. She texts me saying I'm nasty in reference to my new womans car being in my driveway. Of course I dont reply, well the next day she sends me explicit texts wanting to know how that nasty stuff is, etc., I'm so gross, my new womans nasty. She then texts me she will be seeing us around and that I can tell my new woman this as well, like a threat she is gonna kick her butt. Well I havnt heard from her since. However I work at the same place as her mom. Her mom was always cold to me since the breakup. Well now she is really nice to me, gives me compliments about my haircut, tells me to have a wonderful day and enjoy my day off. Just weird out of no where kind of things. Like shes my buddy all the sudden. So I'm confused. After 6 months of no contact this happens. What should I think about this? Is this chick just a total physco? Is she jealous? I dont get it, because I moved on and left her alone. Any advice? And whats with the total 180 by her mom? Are these people just nuts lol????????
davesterr Posted October 24, 2011 Posted October 24, 2011 who knows for certain. the mom could not have liked u as her daughters bf but now that u no longer are together she might like u as a person. then again who knows besides her. about your ex being a psycho. i guess some women can't handle being the number 1 girl for u anymore. she realised u moved on and found someone new. she wants to know the dirt and everything and what she really wants to hear is u telling her that she is still the love of ur life to boost her ego. i would keep ignoring her because theres no reason to really talk to her. i mean she obviously is jealous in a way and wants to know whats up. whether the threats are real? im not sure. people can be crazy and normal people can turn psycho. if u are really worried then u can file a restraining order. or you could text her and tell her to leave u alone. but i think texting her will really just aggrevate her more. imo its best to just stay on nc and live ur life the way u have been and if the threats get worse then u can always contact the authorities. im no crime scene professional though so this is just my opinion and not what you should do.
Author rnl Posted October 24, 2011 Author Posted October 24, 2011 Thanks for the reply. Yeah I'm going to just keep doing my thing and stay away. I think she keeps tabs on me through her mom working with me. I wont lie, theres a part of me that still wonders about her to...... her son called me dad and we were close, and the way it just abruptly ended still stings. But I guess I need to just keep moving in the oppositte direction.
citrusdrop1688 Posted October 24, 2011 Posted October 24, 2011 yeah, if I had to guess I would say the mom is trying to get some info about you now for her daughter. The girl is probably realizing you have actually moved on and she doesnt like it very much. But I would say its a bit in the psycho territory. Whatever you do dont respond to ANYTHING she sends you. That will just make her think if she tries hard enough she will always be able to get a response.
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