need , interesting story, not be friends with this girl anymore?

[rockyshore]

Srry about my grammar, Kinda wrote this really fast, want advice.

 

So I met a girl at my college and we got into a relationship (its been a month and we broke up, my last relationship was 8 months long). I basically started having a lot of drama when i got into the relationship. A mutual friend who I've known for 2 yrs and I don't know how long my ex knew her. Wanted us to break up the first week we got together. It was over money at a restaurant. After attending a city event, I wanted to go out to eat with my girl. Our friend was tagged along and didn't prepare to bring money. I payed for my own and I wanted my girl to pay for a least a little bit (she gave 7 dollars for tip on a 50 dollar bill). I didn't mind paying for her, but our friend didn't want too, started calling the waitress names and refused to pay, basically forcing all the bill on me. I felt extremely uncomfortable and I let it go because she was my friend. Well she didn't. Our friend kept on bringing it up on how boyfriends should always pay for the girlfriend. After the fourth time, I got angry and decided not to talk to her again. My ex was extremely pissed off because when our friend was having trouble with her boyfriend; her friends said break up with him when my ex was there to support her. So my ex didn't like that. The next thing was she was angry I didn't know what tomorrow is. I didn't know so I was guessing her birthday. She got angry that i didn't know her birthday but knew mine. Her birthday was 6 months before we met so I felt it was irrelevant. And of course I know it now, but I just met her when we got into a relationship, so I didn't know a lot about her and didn't expect her to know everything about me either. What tomorrow was our one month anniversary, which I thought was creepy because I never had a girl do that in a relationship. I was bit put off by. So I broke up with her and said I don't want to be friends with her. I thought if I was not with her that I would be more hurt so I went with the whole idea of no-contact. But I did it anyways. she said I was treating her more of a friend and that she felt like the relationship was unbalanced. I didn't feel that way at all and thought she was doing too much early and expecting way too much out of me the first month. She talked about buying her cars and stuff (i never knew if she was joking or not). I basically didn't want things to end up like they did and I was wanted it too end now and restart later rather couple months down the line it be really bad. What should I do if I want to be with her, what do I do if I don't. Should I? Idk and I seek your guys advice. If you want to ask any questions, I will answer them; there's a lot more. Don't want the OP to be too long.

Edited October 24, 2011 by rockyshore