Deano8888 Posted October 24, 2011 Posted October 24, 2011 Hiya all, Just wanted to know if anyone else has been dumped by a text message, or email and the person will not talk to you at all or give an explanation? I was just dropped by my girlfriend of 2 years, she just sent a text saying it was over. I accepted what she said and asked if we could have a talk either by phone or meeting just to end things properly as I felt dumping someone you had been in love with for 2 years by a text is pretty s**t. But she ignored my texts completely and blocked me on Facebook! Anyone else experienced this? To me, this is the most gutless and cowardly thing you can do to another person. The only reason she didn't call was to make it easier on herself so she didn't feel any guilt. It's heart-breaking and almost impossible to get closure from as you have no idea what's going on. One second they are in your life, the next second (text message) they're gone!!!!!
Bobby289 Posted October 24, 2011 Posted October 24, 2011 That is an easy way out, mainly to avoid seeing you in pain. Trust me she feels just as ****ty having to do that to you if she really loved you. It is not easy to find closure from that you are right, I find it hard when my texts get ignored every now and then but never been shut out like that. These forums help, thats for sure.
alphamale Posted October 24, 2011 Posted October 24, 2011 Anyone else experienced this? no, not your case but i have dumped chicks by text whom i've going out with for a month or two....i know its mean but its simple and easy
LSgirl Posted October 24, 2011 Posted October 24, 2011 Yes just last night he dumped me over text sayibg it was over and moving on. I blew up his phone left voicemails and texted him to talk instead of text but he ignored me. Not proud that i begged.
Sugarkane Posted October 24, 2011 Posted October 24, 2011 I was dumped by text out of the blue, after dating a year.
Ms P Posted October 24, 2011 Posted October 24, 2011 Hi Deano, I was dumped by text seven days ago, with no warning whatsoever - in fact it came after a good night out where we had had (what I thought to be!) a great time. I had even helped our team win a trivia night by winning the physical challenge, which my partner seemed very proud of.......apparently not proud enough. The text was sent a mere hour after we kissed good bye. Admittedly, unlike you, we'd only been going out for two and a half months, but there were plans - he was supposed to be moving in, I was helping him set up a business......I was so shocked to get the message, I froze with horror. Here's the wording; "I think it's best that we are not in a relationship......sorry its by text but I have lots on my mind presently." That's it. Obviously I wasn't one of the "things" on his mind! My reaction? I think something so COWARDLY didn't even warrant acknowledgement! I have neither texted, phoned or e-mailed since, and I'm staying strong on that. Apart from anything else, I don't want to give him ANY reason to be able to justify his actions to anyone - and if I ring, I hate to imagine what I'd say! I am devastated, no doubt like you, and it's hard to concede that these people are *******s and don't deserve us - they are FILTHY COWARDS!!!!!! My heart is broken, but the worst thing is the shock - how can a mature adult treat another adult like that?!? Particularly when there was no fight/disagreement/obvious problem. Know how you're feeling, and I HATE IT! Best Wishes.......just know your ex isn't the only scum sucking maggot in the universe! Ms P
Author Deano8888 Posted October 24, 2011 Author Posted October 24, 2011 thank you all for your thoughts and posts and taking the time to reply. Ms P I think you feel the exact same way I do, so I feel for you. I wasn't expecting a reply like that I must admit, but I share how heart breaking it is. It was the same for me, just a text out the blue after we had been out the night before and every thing was fine. Next day I'm dumped! These forums do help, it's nice to share stories with others going through similar problems. Thank you everyone
SoCal_Guy Posted October 25, 2011 Posted October 25, 2011 About four years ago to the day, I was dumped by a text message from my girlfriend of 3.5 years. This came the morning after my birthday. She also proceeded to text me that she didn't want to do it on my birthday and ruin that, so she waited one more day. I was really, really torn up by what happened for several months, but now I realize very clearly that she was not the right woman for me and I'm so glad we're not together anymore. I don't hate her, but I don't speak to her hardly at all outside of an occasional email every now and then. There are ZERO feelings between us now, so it's not big deal, but I still hold onto a lot of bitterness inside because of how I was dumped via text after what I thought was a very good 3.5 year relationship. Guess I valued it more than she did.
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