estakado Posted May 19, 2004 Share Posted May 19, 2004 Out of a 8 year relationship and I just got dumped the begining of this month and she has moved on with another guy...a guy that she says "takes care of her". I've already done the talk and put myself out there and let her know that I was willing to change things in order for us to work things out. She said no and that she will always be there for me....Yeah right thats why she doesnt call. I hate feeling this loss and depression, I mean last month I was ok, even when we dont get to talk or see each other for a couple days. It is sooo hard not to call her and or think about her and I've givin in to calling her, but lately I havent and although I still feel sad, I feel strong too. Since she left though the days and nights have gotten longer. I cant sleep, eat or have fun...it just isnt the same. In the meantime, I've cleaned the house and got alot of her stuff out to her but sometimes I find things like hairclips and pins that remind me of her. My situation now seems critical since she left because the rent is higher and I am no longer able to afford school full time. My job is nice but $12 an hour just dont cut it when you have a son. My job is pretty dead end and there is no open spots for opportunity. My friends are willing to let me crash at their pad for low price while I save for school. This sounds like a good option but I think I need my own space...except when now that I am alone it kills me. Work is cool but its hard to get through sometimes because I think of her....I just cant shut it off. I dunno what to do, theres this job on a cruiseship offered and it seems like a perfect getaway for a while to get over her and earn some money and meet new people. All the money is banked and your expenses are paid. Some of my friends think that taking that job is running away and I should just man up and get over her and continue with school instead to better myself. I know I will always love her and the chances of her coming back to me are slim...so I should move on. Now I just dont know whether to stay at my spot and move on or just get the other job and move on. I sure could use the money for a semester of school. I was real scared and hella depressed a couple weeks ago, I am not totally over her but I'm getting there. Link to post Share on other sites
hurtingandconfused Posted May 19, 2004 Share Posted May 19, 2004 I cant sleep, eat or have fun...it just isnt the same. It takes lots and lots and lots of time. You will get there. I dunno what to do, theres this job on a cruiseship offered and it seems like a perfect getaway I got a new job at a hotel. I get to meet new people and it's fun. It gets my mind off my ex. The pay is better than my old job, however it's not about the money...it's what makes you feel better. Now I just dont know whether to stay at my spot and move on or just get the other job and move on. No matter what you decide on...YOU WILL HAVE to move on. I was real scared and hella depressed a couple weeks ago, I am not totally over her but I'm getting there. You'll go through phases, but you will make it. Sounds like you have a strong mind. so I should move on. Absolutely, most definitely so! Link to post Share on other sites
Author estakado Posted May 19, 2004 Author Share Posted May 19, 2004 Thanks dude! All I need to know now, is what do I do to stay busy and not think about her....it sucks to have something in your life gone and taken away. Link to post Share on other sites
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