pinkttulips Posted October 23, 2011 Posted October 23, 2011 Had a great 2nd date with this guy, we spent a lot of time talking, watched a movie at his house, dinner out. There was a little touching, but not a lot. When he took me home he kissed me at the door, on the lips, like the 1st date (1st date there were no touching, holding hands, etc.., but a kiss at the door). Is he just wanting to take things slow, not really into me? Usually guys are a little more with the touchy feely and maybe more of a kiss than just on the lips.
thatone Posted October 23, 2011 Posted October 23, 2011 did you give him any signals or just wait for him to kiss you? put your hands around the back of his neck, grab his shoulders, etc.
Fondue Posted October 23, 2011 Posted October 23, 2011 If he wasn't interested in you, he wouldn't kiss you at all. Just sayin'.
Feelin Frisky Posted October 23, 2011 Posted October 23, 2011 I take it you an are amputee? He's probably a little timid and is hoping for signs from you that he's welcome. Move in to him and see what happens if you want that. Then report back if he doesn't get going.
Author pinkttulips Posted October 23, 2011 Author Posted October 23, 2011 did you give him any signals or just wait for him to kiss you? put your hands around the back of his neck, grab his shoulders, etc. I guess I waited for him, he kissed me, then we hugged, not a real quick hug but not a long one.. maybe almost 10 seconds long. Okay so if he wasn't interested, he wouldn't kiss me at all, (love that statement by Fondue), so maybe he's either a little timid, maybe not reading any little signs I'm trying to give (I'm a little shy), or maybe just wanting to take it slow?
thatone Posted October 23, 2011 Posted October 23, 2011 we can't read his mind any better than you an, and we can't tell him what to do, he isn't here . but what you can do is something like what feelin frisky and i suggested. move in on him next time, put your hands on his shoulders or around his neck. let him know you're comfortable with him by your actions.
Author pinkttulips Posted October 23, 2011 Author Posted October 23, 2011 we can't read his mind any better than you an, and we can't tell him what to do, he isn't here . but what you can do is something like what feelin frisky and i suggested. move in on him next time, put your hands on his shoulders or around his neck. let him know you're comfortable with him by your actions. okay, I will do that next time I see him! thanks!
Pierre Posted October 24, 2011 Posted October 24, 2011 When he took me home he kissed me at the door, on the lips, like the 1st date (1st date there were no touching, holding hands, etc.., but a kiss at the door). Is he just wanting to take things slow, not really into me? Usually guys are a little more with the touchy feely and maybe more of a kiss than just on the lips. Why do some women validate themselves with how badly a guy wants to have sex with them? Some woman are even proud when a guy gets an erection next to them. This is seen as a sign that validates them as women. Is that a huge sign of insecurity?
snug.bunny Posted October 24, 2011 Posted October 24, 2011 He may have had stink breath. What did he eat?
alphamale Posted October 24, 2011 Posted October 24, 2011 Had a great 2nd date with this guy, we spent a lot of time talking, watched a movie at his house, dinner out. There was a little touching, but not a lot. When he took me home he kissed me at the door, on the lips, like the 1st date (1st date there were no touching, holding hands, etc.., but a kiss at the door). Is he just wanting to take things slow, not really into me? Usually guys are a little more with the touchy feely and maybe more of a kiss than just on the lips. on a scale of 1-10 how attractive are you? i need this info to determine my response. thanks
thatone Posted October 24, 2011 Posted October 24, 2011 Why do some women validate themselves with how badly a guy wants to have sex with them? Some woman are even proud when a guy gets an erection next to them. This is seen as a sign that validates them as women. why wouldn't they be? when i kiss a girl i'm attracted to i'm probably gonna be hard as a rock, barring alcohol hindrance or any other factor. if she notices and thinks better of herself for that, who am i to discourage her?
Forever Learning Posted October 24, 2011 Posted October 24, 2011 why wouldn't they be? when i kiss a girl i'm attracted to i'm probably gonna be hard as a rock, barring alcohol hindrance or any other factor. if she notices and thinks better of herself for that, who am i to discourage her? What a cool sentiment!
Pierre Posted October 24, 2011 Posted October 24, 2011 why wouldn't they be? when i kiss a girl i'm attracted to i'm probably gonna be hard as a rock, barring alcohol hindrance or any other factor. if she notices and thinks better of herself for that, who am i to discourage her? It is nice to be attracted to a nice woman. However, having an erection is nothing to be proud off. I often have an erection before I have to pee. I cannot imagine a woman that takes credit for causing an erection and then feels good about herself. Likewise, women that take pride in seeing men that want to f****k them are are suspect. The better women do not base their greatness on those things.
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