daisy120 Posted October 23, 2011 Posted October 23, 2011 I posted an ad looking to meet someone and I received a response from a guy who was interested; however, after the second message, it turns out he is married. This couple are looking for someone to join them in a threesome. I have never done this before, but I am curious. We will be meeting soon to get to know each other, but I really have no idea on whether I can do this. Can anyone share their experiences or give me some advice?
insertnamehere Posted October 27, 2011 Posted October 27, 2011 My only threesome arose from approaching two girls on a beach in Europe at 2am who decided to go swimming naked. They were friends, so it wasn't particularly hard to pull off, combined with the amount of drinking we had all been doing. Actually, I don't recommend it. The one girl got rather left out. Worse, she was the one I was interested in!! Her friend was the clear queen bee, and that's how the sex worked. It's not something I'd overtly seek out again. The configuration almost demands someone loses out.
Frogwife Posted October 27, 2011 Posted October 27, 2011 I had my first experience(s) with threesomes this year and I love them. I do MMW (I'm the woman). I have a primary sexfriend that I see and then he brings in a third based on whatever criteria I'm in the mood for (appearance, age, 'size', etc). They are experienced with it, so there is no awkwardness and everyone is kept 'busy'. With us, there is no male-male contact. When he first suggested it, I was completely turned off - I never thought I would like something like and it took a long time for me to agree, but I'm glad I did and it's been very exciting. If you like both men and women, this might be a fun experience. The fact that you are a stranger to both of them might make it better for you - more anonymous and no emotional ties. 1
Symetrical-Siren Posted October 29, 2011 Posted October 29, 2011 That's wasn't made clear... If it's only about sex, then I say go for it. Just make sure you have condoms and oral dams. I've been in 3-somes before, and I've had both a good experience in one, and a bad experience in the other. Ultimately, it depends on you and how well all 3 of you click. If it's for a relationship....I've heard of 3 way relationships throughout history, however I have never personally known any long term 3sum couples. I'm not necessarily opposed to that though either. My male ancestors both Amerindian and African had many wives, and that worked well for them. Try it. You may like it. If you don't, you're not "locked" into anything. You can't say you don't like it, if you've never had the experience. If it was Brad Pitt and Angelina....would you do it ?
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