my body is a cage Posted October 23, 2011 Posted October 23, 2011 I like this guy who I am friends with. We hooked up (no sex) about two weeks ago, he called me "so hot" "really sexy" etc. Before that, he would chat me all the time, but since then, we've only texted a little... he came to a party I had at which I stupidly decided to "take a nap" and then passed out, apparently he tried to wake me up hah but yeahh... Thing is, I really don't get the vibe he's interested. And, just my luck, he ran into a friend of mine around the time we hooked up and she's been making plans to go to museums etc with him. She has explicitly stated she's not interested in him (although I think she thinks he's cute) but she keeps on making plans to do art things with him. Another mutual friend has told me that he IS interested in her (even though she's doing all the planning) and she also said that he likes me as a person at least for sure but that he "wants what he can't have." The girl in question has invited me to a couple of them and we were supposed to go to a museum together today. After a couple of drinks last night I freaked out a little though and texted her being like I really don't want to impose, I kind of like him and I feel like he doen't like me, he would probably just rather go with you etc... She wrote back and was like "No no no! He told me he likes you! I understand if its weird for you sorry I'm really not trying to date him." Which was nice, but I feel like she just meant "like" as a person, as he hasn't really been pursuing me or anything... Anyway I decided to be mature and said I would go but then they cancelled But yeah, basically I just don't know what to do. I guess for now my approach will be to sit back. I wish there was something I could do that would make him interested. It seems so unfair! This girl is really sweet and quite pretty and interesting, and I know she's not trying to do anything shady other than make a friend. But just got out of a three year relationship with and awesome guy, and I've been single all the way through college (just out now), ts so not fair! I wish I felt like I had something to offer him that she doesn't but I just don't feel that way... he told my other friend that he thinks I'm "really smart" and I know we get along well and have similar senses of humor. One guy friend told me that we're both very pretty but I have a better body, for what thats worth. I just don't see why she is dating material and I'm just hookup material. I know I need to keep on getting to know him in a non-physical manner, and I was hoping to do so at my party but screwed that up, and then I was hoping to do so today at the museum... I just don't know what to do...
Author my body is a cage Posted October 23, 2011 Author Posted October 23, 2011 Also, would it be crazy to think that he cancelled because I was going? When I invited him to my party he mentioned that I lived close to her... she invited this guy she has been hooking up w to the party tho...
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