amythan Posted October 23, 2011 Posted October 23, 2011 Hi - I met this guy through a friend of a friend of mine three weeks ago. It is a long story but we went out all together and we finished at his place. I left in a rush and he was surprised of my reaction because he asked me to stay. My friend was out of town so we didn't came across each other again. I like him but I realized that this was for him just a one off and I decided to leave it this way. Last thursday his friend ask my friend for my phone number and he explained to her that his friend was the one asking for it. She gave him my number and ... he didn't call me yet !!!! Guys why would you try to find a girl's number and then you do not call ??
Mrlonelyone Posted October 23, 2011 Posted October 23, 2011 It is possible that he did not ask that friend for your # but that the friend wanted to try and fix you up. People do that all the time.
Author amythan Posted October 23, 2011 Author Posted October 23, 2011 Bah maybe ... but i do not even know his friend. His friend ask my friend for my number (and my friend gave it to his friend). Yeah it sounds childish ...
Mme. Chaucer Posted October 23, 2011 Posted October 23, 2011 Let me get it straight - You met the guy, slept with him, and you felt it was a one night stand. Later this guy's friend asked yet another friend for your phone number. This sounds like high school (except for the sleeping with him part, which I only wish wasn't happening so casually in high school … but it probably is). Just pretend that last part didn't happen. It's way too confusing. At your stage of life, things ought to be direct and easy to understand. Mature guys don't ask friends of friends of friends for phone numbers of women they've already had sex with. If you slept with the guy and you all have mutual friends, and he wants to get hold of you - you will know it by hearing from him. Though I will say that he evidently was not very interested or he could have asked you for your number himself, right? Anyway, pretend you never heard this complicated fable and move on with your dating life. If he calls you some day - then I guess you'll be pleased.
Author amythan Posted October 23, 2011 Author Posted October 23, 2011 (edited) Yes, you are right .. it sounds way too childish ! Do not get me wrong, I like him but he is just one guy. I think he didn't ask for my number because I messed up everything. During that night he told me about going out together one day after work and I agreed. Then things went weird and we slept together but i was really drunk and i left (unexpectedly). Actually he said i want you to stay and i just got dressed and said no, i am going home and just left. He told his friend that he found this strange. This is why I wasn't expect him to make a move as I sounded as not interested (and even rude to say the least). Anyway if he calls i will be happy (and i will try to do not f*ck it up again) and if he doesn't there are more guys - i just do not understand why he tries to have my number (making everyone aware) if he does not plan to use it ! Edited October 23, 2011 by amythan
Author amythan Posted October 23, 2011 Author Posted October 23, 2011 Also when i say i like him i am thinking in a casual way .. he is not relationship material by any means. He is just very fun to be around, laid back and hot.
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