imperfectangel Posted October 23, 2011 Posted October 23, 2011 As some of you may know the past couple of weeks I've been in n/c. I was just starting to finally feel a bit better. Not checking for msgs/missed calls from him etc. First thing this morning I got a text from him. No texting this weekend my wife will have my phone from 9 am today. Thanks WTF?!!!! I haven't been texting you! I didn't reply but honestly it was like a knife through my heartt I just can't believe the nerve of him
whichwayisup Posted October 23, 2011 Posted October 23, 2011 Can't you block him or change your number? He did that for either 1 - his wife really did have the phone and he was just making sure you weren't going to (slip) and contact him, or he's playing a game with you so you WILL react. Anyway, if possible, change your cell number. It's the only way for you to heal and not hear from him whenever he feels like it. How can he contact you if you have a new number?
MissBee Posted October 23, 2011 Posted October 23, 2011 Wow...he has some nerve Ignore. An ex of mine would do the same thing. When I wasn't paying him any attention, he'd send me these messages and act as though I had been in touch with him or he'd project things. We hadn't spoken for a whole year and he emailed me congratulating me on some achievement and added "I know I'm late but..." ...wtf? You're not late, we're not friends! Prior to that he would send me messages about him going to another country for 2 years and how I shouldn't wait for him, and he knows it's hard to get over your first love...WTF?! LMAOOO he was insane. I repsonded and told him that he was neither my first love, nor would I wait for him in any case! I realized promptly that he was just seeking attention and saying things like that to make it seem like I cared and was chasing him, when I wasn't...but he wanted me to....don't fall for it. Ignore.
Author imperfectangel Posted October 23, 2011 Author Posted October 23, 2011 I am ignoring him girls don't worry I guess I'm just venting but I just can't believe him I nearly started crying at work but by the time I'd finished my shift I'd realized what a arrogant pig he is I can't change my number as its on my c.v and I've had the same number for 7 years why should I do that just b/c of him?! No I'm just gonna ignore ignore ignore Him acting this way is only making this easier for me.
OpenBook Posted October 23, 2011 Posted October 23, 2011 You should send a text anyway, saying something like: "Hi Mrs. xMM! U can keep him, he's all URs" (just kidding with that) No worries. Just let Mr. Arrogant @sswipe boil in his own stew. Silence speaks a million words.
Yianks Posted October 23, 2011 Posted October 23, 2011 Man's perspective here.... Text him the following: 'No texting either please, will go away for a romantic weekend and would really want to enjoy my peace and quiet.'
fellhard4u Posted October 23, 2011 Posted October 23, 2011 LOL...:lmao::lmao::lmao: to the above post! However, I wouldn't recommend answering him. He probably has made you out to be the ''stalker", "persuer" etc. to BW and wants to lure you into a trap. If you answer, he would have "proof" that "you won't leave him alone."
Lucky_One Posted October 23, 2011 Posted October 23, 2011 My first thought is that the text was meant for someone else. Especially since this was LD and you saw him only a handful of times, he could have an OOW?
Deano8888 Posted October 23, 2011 Posted October 23, 2011 thats just cruel, no other word for it. Cruel! noway did this person deserve you I feel your pain, and hope you feel better soon x
Barrsitter Posted October 23, 2011 Posted October 23, 2011 Imperfectangel.... May I suggest a trial membership in the esteemed Official OW's Club on LS? You seem ripe for it...... Cheers
Gentlegirl Posted October 23, 2011 Posted October 23, 2011 My first thought is that the text was meant for someone else. Especially since this was LD and you saw him only a handful of times, he could have an OOW? I thought exactly that.... his text was a mistake. Sorry but otherwise it doesn't make sense. GG
Author imperfectangel Posted October 23, 2011 Author Posted October 23, 2011 Imperfectangel.... May I suggest a trial membership in the esteemed Official OW's Club on LS? You seem ripe for it...... Cheers Lol I will def take a look! As for it being a mistake its a posibility but I doubt it. For as long as he's had my number (7 years) he's never text me by mistake the only thing he's done is ring me by mistake if we've been texting. Wouldn't surprise me if he was trying to make it look that way though either way I will not dignify him with a response he can hide behind texts for as long as he wants a real man would pick up the phone I hope he's very happy with his cash machine wife
bentnotbroken Posted October 23, 2011 Posted October 23, 2011 Lol I will def take a look! As for it being a mistake its a posibility but I doubt it. For as long as he's had my number (7 years) he's never text me by mistake the only thing he's done is ring me by mistake if we've been texting. Wouldn't surprise me if he was trying to make it look that way though either way I will not dignify him with a response he can hide behind texts for as long as he wants a real man would pick up the phone I hope he's very happy with his cash machine wife Does it matter whether he is happy with her or not? :confused:Or whether she is his cash machine or wife?
Minnie09 Posted October 24, 2011 Posted October 24, 2011 To me it sounds like he's fishing, although I haven't read any other of OP's posts and don't know the backstory.
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