Punchyone Posted October 23, 2011 Posted October 23, 2011 Okay, to start this off, I started dating a guy I work with 9 years ago. He was married and unhappy and I was in love with him and yes, I know, it was stupid and I shouldn't have done it. So after several years of him saying he was leaving and then not, I finally said enough and said I was done. Then he decided he wanted a divorce and we ended up coming out and telling people we were together. For a year we dated openly, he has a son, and never once introduced me to him or his family. That put a lot of strain on our relationship and we fought a lot. Finally he got tired of it and dumped me. I was devastated, that was two years ago. We work together so we see each other every day. Six months into the breakup he started coming around and we were trying to get back together. There were ups and downs, then three months ago, he decides he doesn't want to do this, but instead of saying anything, he just stopped talking to me, coming over, etc. I didn't understand wtf was going on, so I assumed it was someone else and that made him mad. So recently he's been flirty and what not, so when I was upset that he wasn't coming by if he was going to be all flirty we fought again. Now he's mad and thinks I'm being crazy. I think he's fkg with my head. He says I'm being selfish and just mad I'm not getting my way. I don't understand why this is so easy for him, he acts like he isn't bothered by the breakup. If he doesn't care and doesn't want to be with me, why does he talk to me and flirt? I can't imagine being with anyone else and it makes ,e sick thinking about him with someone else. Am I missing something? I want to reconcile, but it's like he can't make up his mind, like he doesn't want me moving on but what won't say anything either way. Why can't he just tell me move on? I don't want to move on, and I believe I will have to leave my job to get away from this, but at least I'll have closure.
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