Aero Posted October 23, 2011 Posted October 23, 2011 I am sure a some of you have went through this same kind of thing and I could use some advice. My Ex Girlfriend and I have been broken up for 3 weeks now. We had dated for almost 5 years and were planning on marriage very seriously before we had broken up. We had broken up over our future, friends, jobs and things of that nature. We were both really stressed at the time and that had not helped anything and she left one night during an argument. I was the one pushing to talk because I didn't not understand the whole situation and the way it all went down. We had talked the first week after break up and she said that she wasn't happy and couldn't be in this relationship anymore. She did not talk much at all to me and seemed angry and very hurt about us not being together, but said she still had to go. After that first week I went total NC. It was hard and I had even planned to call her once or twice, but I heard she had her number changed and I wasn't going to e-mail her and I had even gotten off of Facebook because I had seen a post about how she went out with a group of friends and the fun she had and that hurt, I know that is normal, but it was still hard to see. Over this past weekend I had turned my cell phone off to concentrate on myself and do my best to try and keep my mind on other things. However, when I turned my phone back on I had several voice messages and most of them were about 5 seconds long with no one on the other end, sometimes I heard music or a person talking and somethings nothing at all, but that was it. I thought it was a little strange and thought it might have been her, but I wasn't going to reach out by e-mail and plus I don't know her new cell number. The last message was from last night and her words were, "Hey HONEY, I know you had been trying to talk to me and I wasn't talking, but I don't see why we can not just talk so call me" and proceeded with a phone number. I am not sure what to make of the situation and part of me really wants to call because she has had time to think and I am wondering what she has to say. Another part of me doesn't want to call because it may end up being nothing. I have no idea why she had called me Honey at this point because we haven't been together for 3 weeks and she had stated that she was going to move on. The last time we had spoken she had told me to leave her alone and than she proceed to change all her information, I assume so it would be easier for her to go NC. Any info would be great because I am not sure what to do.
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