Hera Posted December 25, 1998 Posted December 25, 1998 I have a boyfriend that likes to watch pornos. I actually like to watch them too. I think he thinks I am bi or a lebian. I don't know why I like to watch them but I do. But how can I convince him that I am not a lesbian but just enjoy watching naked women?
Christie Posted December 25, 1998 Posted December 25, 1998 Girl, what's up with this bi or lesbian thing? We women are also trained to view the female body through a male's perspective, so there's nothing wrong with getting excited over a naked female's body. Worrying will cause more problems than just enjoying. I have a boyfriend that likes to watch pornos. I actually like to watch them too. I think he thinks I am bi or a lebian. I don't know why I like to watch them but I do. But how can I convince him that I am not a lesbian but just enjoy watching naked women?
Dawn Posted January 1, 1999 Posted January 1, 1999 I started out doing that with my biyfriend too. I didn't mind and it never bothered me. Until, he showed me the other things he did. He showed me folders of pics on his pc that he downloads off the internet. I was pissed, isn't the occasional movie or mag enough? Now, I know I can't stop him from looking. It's human nature, but now he spends 2 hours at a time on the internet looking at this. Usually twice a day. And I'm pissed off about it because we live together. He says I'm the one he loves and that I am the person he took the step with of moving in together, but he is obviously happier looking at that. I am at my wits ends trying to deal with this on my own. He doesn't know if he's going to stick around or not because I am too much of a bitch about it. I'd like to hear if there are any other women out there who deal with this and how they handle the mixed emotions they are going through? I keep telling myslef that he's worth it. I keep telling myself that I'm being too insecure. Anyone have any advice?
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