rie39 Posted October 23, 2011 Posted October 23, 2011 So I discover the guy I have been dating for the past few months and writing about has been seeing and sleeping with another girl too. Thing is, both of us girls thought we were dating him, but when we caught him out on it he said "i'm not dating anyone, because i'm not ready for a relationship right now" and that "yes, I've been sleeping with her (the other girl), but not when I was seeing you. You've all got the times mixed up . He was cheating right? I mean, neither of us girls were in a relationship with him. But he was sleeping with both of us. And told both of us we were the only ones he was seeing. I don't think he intended to hurt either of us and feels like a jerk now, but he still shouldn't have slept with two girls right??
cdm369 Posted October 23, 2011 Posted October 23, 2011 He knew what he was doing. He knew he was sleeping with you both. When cheaters get caught they will say anything...even put it on you in some cases. If you're not too involved I would suggest you move on. Finding out early is good.
zengirl Posted October 23, 2011 Posted October 23, 2011 Well, he was lying if he said you were the only one he was seeing, which is the worst part of cheating anyways. I think it's gross to sleep with two people at once, especially consistently, but I don't know that it's cheating; however the fact that he TOLD you that he wasn't seeing anyone else is a huge problem.
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