Ava1987 Posted October 23, 2011 Posted October 23, 2011 I posted a thread a few weeks ago about my parents and fiance fighting over who gets to keep the dog when we moved out (it was my dog which my fiance and parents bought for me as a present and my fiance thinks we should keep it but the story was more complicated than that). Basically I decided that my parents should keep the dog as you can tell from reasons in previous thread. But things have got much worst since then, my fiance refuses to speak to my parents after almost two months and says he hates them. There are also various other problems in our relationship.... 1.I hate that he wont speak to my parents as he knows we are close. 2. My extended family are very close and he has not been out to a family thing for months even before this happened (even when I was Godmother) I am fed up of making excuses of why he wont go. 3. I have a chronic condition and often feel unwell but he never remembers when I go into for treatment of Drs apppointments and does not even try to understand how I am feeling. 4. I find myself crying myself to sleep every night because I just dont want to be with him anymore 5. We argue all the time over stupid things but it always comes back to how he hates my parents 6. I find myself making exscuses for him when he is rude to friends and he calls my friends names behind their backs 7. He cannot drive and expects me to drive him to work etc even when I have had time off work because of my illness. 8. He is always getting angry and swearing about stupid things like I accidently put a tissue in the washing machine or left a light on. Basically I could go on, but over the last few months since "the dog" incidence he has changed and it has make me question my feelings towards him greatly, I find excuses not to be with him and when I am I am so unhappy. I keep putting on a brave face for family and friends but I know I am going to crack. My parents know I am unhappy even though I have not said anything to them and they have said things like "there is always a way out". The problem is before all of this we were happy and have just bought a house together, we are named on a joint mortgage but I really just want out and I really have no idea what to do? I know if I move out I will have to keep up mortgage payments and such or I could end up losing all the money I put into the house. If I could go back to the day he asked me to marry knowing what I know now my answer would be a lot different and my life would be a lot happier. if anyone has any suggestions I would be very grateful and feel free to call me a Drama Queen I am just out of options!
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