automaticarmadillo Posted October 22, 2011 Posted October 22, 2011 Hello, I'm in 10th grade and I have been having some trouble recently. So I really like this girl, but have never had a girlfriend before, so I am nervous about asking her out etc. I have liked her this whole school year so far, and also at the end of last year. She is funny, sweet, smart, and everything I look for in a girl all in one. We talk a lot during class with each other. This past month we have been talking a lot outside of class as well.Usually it is hard to talk to her outside of class because I'm intimidated by her friends, and she is always stuck to them like glue.Sometime I get lucky and catch her alone, and will strike up a conversation. I thought she liked me by the way she seemed to be flirting with me. I am positive I showed her signs of interest as well so it is not because of her giving up. Well this week my school had a retreat like thing out to a ranch. I was planning on telling her how I felt during this trip, but before I got around to it she started talking to me about how she was not having a good time. I asked her why and she said that she had made plans with the guy she really likes but he ditched her for another girl. She would not say who it is, but we go to a small school so it did not take long for me to figure out who she was talking about. Having her tell me this absolutely crushed me, and ruined the rest of the trip for me. I could not stop thinking about her, and I still cannot. On the bus ride back when we stopped for lunch, she was playing guitar and I was going to go sit with her but the guy that she was talking about came over and sat down before I did. They were talking and laughing, which crushed my hopes even further. A few hours ago I saw her on Facebook so i asked her how she thought the trip went, and if it got any better and she replied "heh, no". She then said she had to go, as I was typing out a message saying "Don't worry about it, give it time, the guy who ditched you will soon realize the mistake he has made by passing up on you". As I hit enter she logged off and I see her online now, and do not know whether she got it or not. I don't know what to do. She told me he was a jerk, but continues to talk and laugh with him, and she tells me that guys suck but says that I don't, and that im really nice. I have never had a girlfriend before and I actually felt for the first time that she might be the first, but all of that has come crashing down the past few days. I know this just sounds like a sob story and not a question, and that is partly true, but I just wanted to write it up on here and clear my mind. I would appreciate anyone's advice. I do not know who else to turn to at this point.
betterdeal Posted October 26, 2011 Posted October 26, 2011 Does she have eyes? If yes, then yes, she fancies you!
Author automaticarmadillo Posted October 27, 2011 Author Posted October 27, 2011 what do you mean if she has eyes then she fancies me? (sorry probably a dumb question).
Author automaticarmadillo Posted October 27, 2011 Author Posted October 27, 2011 sorry for another post, but I am curious on how I should tell her. she is always with her friends, who dont want anything to do with me from their body language, and they are very intimidating. I'm also scared that if i tell her and she doesnt feel the same then it will ruin our friendship.
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