reallypo Posted October 22, 2011 Posted October 22, 2011 Just found out my ex cheated on me or rather, dumped me for another girl. I've seen her on facebook before, never thought anything of it when she posted on his wall. I'm not at all a cocky person in real life whatsoever, but I honestly look 100x better than her. My personality? I'm normal...not too sweet (pushover), but not a crazy B either. I'm educated, but not the uptight brainy. I can talk about anything. I'm fun and spontaneous. Apparently he doesn't love me anymore. But he cheated down! And she had a history of cheating on her husband (divorced now). Like WTH??? She's like those girls that goes out and partys all the time, takes pictures of herself in bikinis and make profile pics, goes to vegas with another girl (from the pics, looks like they'll jump any guy)....like a real desperate looking kind of a girl. Anybody else who's ex cheated down? I guess I should feel better because I'd probably go jealousy crazy if she was hot. But I'm so bothered! Being cheated on is such a horrible feeling. Has anybody been cheated on move on? Or forever hurt? UGHHH I CAN SCREAM I'M SO MAD!
M2155 Posted October 22, 2011 Posted October 22, 2011 Well my ex went back to his ex and I think he downgraded. But I also know that it's impossible to know if they cheated up or down because it's more about how they make each ohther feel. I hope my next guy is hotter and more successful than my ex but if he's not yet makes me feel amazing, my ex would see it the same way you are now. If your ex wanted a fun girl for a little while, yes, it's wrong he cheated and you need to work on forgetting about him. If it makes you feel better to know he downgraded, by all means use that internal motivation. Maybe he did, if so, he will realize it too late and you don't need someone with such bad judgement anyway;).
ffw Posted October 22, 2011 Posted October 22, 2011 (edited) Hi reallypo, Here's my take on this: 1. If someone dumped you, moved to another person & they told you about this. Its not called cheating. However, if they dumped you without giving away the facts then its called cheating. Its because they were messing around prior to the split, whether in the physical or emitional sense. By the look of your post, it looks the latter one. 2. Why you are comparing yourself to the new girl? Does it matter? Your relationship is over. Edited October 22, 2011 by ffw
Fizzy1337 Posted October 22, 2011 Posted October 22, 2011 My girlfriend dumped me for another guy, and i have been very nice and caring towards her. She pretty much cheated on me i guess. People like that are going to have a hard time finding a spouse they can rely on
SincereOnlineGuy Posted October 22, 2011 Posted October 22, 2011 Just found out my ex cheated on me or rather, dumped me for another girl. I've seen her on facebook before, never thought anything of it when she posted on his wall. I'm not at all a cocky person in real life whatsoever, but I honestly look 100x better than her. My personality? I'm normal...not too sweet (pushover), but not a crazy B either. I'm educated, but not the uptight brainy. I can talk about anything. I'm fun and spontaneous. Apparently he doesn't love me anymore. But he cheated down! And she had a history of cheating on her husband (divorced now). Like WTH??? She's like those girls that goes out and partys all the time, takes pictures of herself in bikinis and make profile pics, goes to vegas with another girl (from the pics, looks like they'll jump any guy)....like a real desperate looking kind of a girl. Anybody else who's ex cheated down? I guess I should feel better because I'd probably go jealousy crazy if she was hot. But I'm so bothered! Being cheated on is such a horrible feeling. Has anybody been cheated on move on? Or forever hurt? UGHHH I CAN SCREAM I'M SO MAD! Exactly what would cheating-UP entail??? Consider your answer to that question and then ask yourself why you are bothering to mention "cheating down". And why waste your energy and time contemplating 'the other girl'... when 'the other person' is in almost all cases completely unrelated to the core issues behind 'cheating'.
Author reallypo Posted October 23, 2011 Author Posted October 23, 2011 thanks for the comments everyone.... he told me he wanted to breakup for a completely diff reason (nothing to do with the girl). found out later that he chilled with her the night we broke up. to me...emotional/physical cheating is all cheating. if u kinda look at it, emotional cheating hurts more. but i don't know what they've done. i been lied to. and when he admitted to me about her.....it was like pulling teeth. and its only natural to compare myself to someone else he chooses over me. and i know he's a jerk. this is all fresh. so rational thinking is not my friend right now. but i got my revenge. and it was sweet.
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