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I know for sure she has been tested. And yes, she probably is pretty used to being spoiled, but she spoils me with incredible sex every time i see her. We literally keep having sex until our bits are sore because we dont during the week. She apparently is like this with every boyfriend, i assume, and its pretty spectacular. Very cuddly too.

 

You really don't think that I was just so good that she couldn't resist, and that she will be loyal to me? Im a pretty confident guy and I think she is obviously attracted more than she would be to other finance guys who she works with.

 

Again, could this be a rebound relationship? It did start while she was still upset about her ex.

Well I'm glad she's so good in bed. I'd imagine she's had lot of practice. Maybe you will be able to keep her happy for awhile, but I'm sure she's going to want something new and different eventually. She sounds like that type of girl. She likes new and shiny material things, so I'm sure the same is true of her desire for new and shiny sexual partners.

 

Maybe I'm wrong. Maybe she'll be the one you marry and have a million babies with. Somehow I don't think that will be the case though.

 

Rebound? I don't know. Maybe. Sounds like she just got sick of her last boyfriend even though he was so loving and nice. The type of man any other NORMAL girl would hang on to. Like I said, she wanted something new and shiny to replace him will. That's you and she'll be replacing you too eventually. So you could very well be a rebound. And was she really upset that she broke up with the guy? She was more upset over his "weak" reaction to being dumped, not the fact she broke his heart and felt bad about it.

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Wow- I didn't know this sort of thing happened in real life. I thought this was the stuff of trashy tv shows.

 

Really-this girl has insecurity issues, and does not give two ****s about HERSELF or other people for that matter.

 

I was in love with a man who didn't please me, so I told him to his face that I felt unsatisfied in our relationship. Did that make me a bitch? Maybe... but I sure as hell put it out there so he wouldn't be under a false impression. I would never have cheated on him--would have rather told him than break his heart like that. Even if it broke his heart to know I wasn't interested anymore, at least he didn't have to find out that some other dude plowed me.

 

I guess you are not concerned about infidelity, considering you are the one who did it. Yeah that's fine, but to actually date the woman after that? Woah....what makes you any different than her ex, besides that you are "wise" to her ways, and feel like you're her confidant now that you've committed this sexy affair together?

 

Well, as for not using protection, I will never understand that... never. So many insecure women who don't give a **** about themselves. Nevermind that you don't know what she has, she doesn't know what you have. I mean not saying you have anything, but before I ever had sex without protection (for the first time with my ex-bf) we both went to get tested and I got on Birth control. It's a huge trust thing for me, because I don't want just any random Joe coming in me. Whew. That's a personal preference, I guess--but it saddens me to know how much people spread crap around because of their lack of self-respect.

 

And as for her pussy being tight. Um, yeah my vagina is tight too... and I've had some significant sex in my day. My vagina is so tight that my boyfriend's penis had to fit in there almost each time. It never stretched out even in the year we were together. Vaginas do not stretch with penis--sex. It's about having a child--but even then, the vagina often comes back to its state with time. Loose vagina does not equal harlot. :p

Exactly. Vaginas have incredible elasticity. The fact that she's tight doesn't mean sh*t. Forget how tight she is, what about the infection she most likely has or has had? I wouldn't touch that pussy with a 10 foot pole.:sick:

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Rebound? I don't know. Maybe. Sounds like she just got sick of her last boyfriend even though he was so loving and nice. The type of man any other NORMAL girl would hang on to. Like I said, she wanted something new and shiny to replace him will. That's you and she'll be replacing you too eventually. So you could very well be a rebound. And was she really upset that she broke up with the guy? She was more upset over his "weak" reaction to being dumped, not the fact she broke his heart and felt bad about it.

 

She tried to stay with him when he found out about me, and broke off contact with me for a little while until she realized it wouldnt work--he wouldn't let it go. From what I know from one of her friends, she was very upset, but seeing him freak out and try to hold onto her because he loved her or whatever turned her off. He tried to see her again after he dumped her and she opted to come see me.

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9 times out of 10 women side with women no matter what. The fact that women can't find a reason to defend this should tell the OP poster something.

But the sex is sooooooooooooooooooooooo good!!!!! Doesn't matter that the chick is a ho. That's the OP's thing. He can't give up the good pussy even though he knows down deep inside, the girl is a no good piece of trash. That's what this is all about. Pussy not LOVE.

 

Believe me OP, there's lots of good pussy out there. This girl isn't the end all, be all. Move on or you're going to end up getting your heart broken. Or worse yet, heart broken with some herpes to go with it.:sick:

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But the sex is sooooooooooooooooooooooo good!!!!! Doesn't matter that the chick is a ho. That's the OP's thing. He can't give up the good pussy even though he knows down deep inside, the girl is a no good piece of trash. That's what this is all about. Pussy not LOVE.

 

Believe me OP, there's lots of good pussy out there. This girl isn't the end all, be all. Move on or you're going to end up getting your heart broken. Or worse yet, heart broken with some herpes to go with it.:sick:

 

Are we that screwed up as a society that people can only find good sex with scumbags? How did we get to this point?

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She tried to stay with him when he found out about me, and broke off contact with me for a little while until she realized it wouldnt work--he wouldn't let it go. From what I know from one of her friends, she was very upset, but seeing him freak out and try to hold onto her because he loved her or whatever turned her off. He tried to see her again after he dumped her and she opted to come see me.

Whatever. She didn't like his reaction to getting dumped. I know when a man shows me how much he loves me and how he doesn't want to lose me, I'm TOTALLY turned off. :rolleyes::rolleyes:

 

I don't mean to be a bitch about this sh*t, but I just don't understand how you think this girl is so great. Yeah the sex is good. So what. You will find good sex with someone else. And hopefully with someone who is a decent human being.

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Are we that screwed up as a society that people can only find good sex with scumbags? How did we get to this point?

Not everyone is like that. OP sounds really young and naive to me and maybe he doesn't think there is more good sex out there. Good sex with someone who isn't a trifling ho bag. I chalk it up to being young, naive and inexperienced.

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Not everyone is like that. OP sounds really young and naive to me and maybe he doesn't think there is more good sex out there. Good sex with someone who isn't a trifling ho bag. I chalk it up to being young, naive and inexperienced.

 

Not everybody but a whole lot of people are and it lasts well into middle age for some.

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Not everybody but a whole lot of people are and it lasts well into middle age for some.

Or chalk it up to low self esteem and self worth and people believing they can't do any better then the @ssholes and skanks.

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Soooo,

 

the general consensus is that this girl is trash

 

She will cheat on me or eventually hurt me even though im literally falling in love with her right now

 

she is a whore/skank/etc

 

I am a dumb, chump dickface

 

And I should stop being so stupid and walk away before this blows up in my face and I get my heart ripped out....?

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Or chalk it up to low self esteem and self worth and people believing they can't do any better then the @ssholes and skanks.

 

I don't know what it is. I can't be the only one who looks around and wonders if the universe is trying to play one big joke. I feel like everybody's brains got scrambled and somehow they missed me.

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Soooo,

 

the general consensus is that this girl is trash

 

She will cheat on me or eventually hurt me even though im literally falling in love with her right now

 

she is a whore/skank/etc

 

I am a dumb, chump dickface

 

And I should stop being so stupid and walk away before this blows up in my face and I get my heart ripped out....?

EDIT: I'm literally falling in love with her pussy or should I say I'm already embroiled in a intense love affair her pussy.:laugh::rolleyes:

 

You are dumb. I wouldn't call you a chump or a dickface, but you are being extremely naive about this girl. Nothing that can't be fixed though. You can move on and find someone else. That would make you SMART.

 

I actually can relate to you in a way. I was involved with a guy recently that was the best lay I have ever had. I mean, I STILL think about how good the sex was. He cheated on me and I dumped his @ss. Why did I dump him even though the sex was off the hook? Because I know I can do better and I DESERVE better. This girl hasn't cheated on you yet, but it's only a matter of time. Plus she's already showed you some horrible character flaws. You can do better and you deserve better. Like I said, good sex should not keep you when you honestly know better then this.

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I don't know what it is. I can't be the only one who looks around and wonders if the universe is trying to play one big joke. I feel like everybody's brains got scrambled and somehow they missed me.

Consider yourself lucky then.;)

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Rebound? I don't know. Maybe. Sounds like she just got sick of her last boyfriend even though he was so loving and nice. The type of man any other NORMAL girl would hang on to. Like I said, she wanted something new and shiny to replace him will. That's you and she'll be replacing you too eventually. So you could very well be a rebound. And was she really upset that she broke up with the guy? She was more upset over his "weak" reaction to being dumped, not the fact she broke his heart and felt bad about it.

 

She claims that she felt bad. She says she really loved him, but loves me too and things with him wouldnt ever work out after the trust was broken.

 

EDIT: She also apparently wants to stay in contact with him or be on good terms, and has told him that she doesn't want to never talk to him again. He has refused this proposal, and has basically said goodbye to her but apparently in a nice way, saying thank you for the good times and some other pussy b/s. This is what one our mutual friends told me.

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Consider yourself lucky then.;)

 

I don't know. I don't know if you watch The Simpsons but sometimes I feel like Homer in that episode where they removed the crayon from his brain and he was super smart but miserable because he did not fit in. Maybe I would be happier being ignorant and dumb like everybody else.

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She claims that she felt bad. She says she really loved him, but loves me too and things with him wouldnt ever work out after the trust was broken.

 

EDIT: She also apparently wants to stay in contact with him or be on good terms, and has told him that she doesn't want to never talk to him again. He has refused this proposal, and has basically said goodbye to her but apparently in a nice way, saying thank you for the good times and some other pussy b/s. This is what one our mutual friends told me.

Yeah she wants him to be on the back burner in case sh*t with you doesn't work out. A back up plan. Good for him for not falling for her bullsh*t. My ex of 8 years tried that with me and I said HELL NO!! I'm no one's back up plan in case things with his current ho don't work out. And why is it pussy BS if he said thanks for the good times? At least he's taking the high road and saying something nice instead of calling her out for what she is. A whore who broke his heart.:rolleyes:

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I don't know. I don't know if you watch The Simpsons but sometimes I feel like Homer in that episode where they removed the crayon from his brain and he was super smart but miserable because he did not fit in. Maybe I would be happier being ignorant and dumb like everybody else.

I don't watch the Simpsons, but I hear you. Who wants to be ignorant and dumb? I wouldn't want to be.

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Yeah she wants him to be on the back burner in case sh*t with you doesn't work out. A back up plan. Good for him for not falling for her bullsh*t. My ex of 8 years tried that with me and I said HELL NO!! I'm no one's back up plan in case things with his current ho don't work out. And why is it pussy BS if he said thanks for the good times? At least he's taking the high road and saying something nice instead of calling her out for what she is. A whore who broke his heart.:rolleyes:

 

 

Why does she even want that though? Was that what I was for the second half of their relationship? I would prefer it if she just cut him off, but thankfully he did that for me. She wanted to maintain some type of relationship with him.

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Why does she even want that though? Was that what I was for the second half of their relationship? I would prefer it if she just cut him off, but thankfully he did that for me. She wanted to maintain some type of relationship with him.

And why did she want to remain in some sort of relationship with him? Probably because she knows he's a good guy and he would make a great back up plan. That's how the dumpers usually operate. And it does no good for the ones that were dumped. I'm glad he told her he was done with her. No one deserves to be second best or a back up plan.

 

YOU weren't her back up plan. YOU were the dude she was f*cking while she was still with her boyfriend. That's it. How does that make you feel?

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And why did she want to remain in some sort of relationship with him? Probably because she knows he's a good guy and he would make a great back up plan. That's how the dumpers usually operate. And it does no good for the ones that were dumped. I'm glad he told her he was done with her. No one deserves to be second best or a back up plan.

 

YOU weren't her back up plan. YOU were the dude she was f*cking while she was still with her boyfriend. That's it. How does that make you feel?

 

What is the difference exactly? When she was with me she was acting almost like we were together, but when she went back to school it was obviously drama she didnt need and I was far away.

 

Does it mean that I was better than a backup plan and valued more than the other guy?

 

EDIT: When things went sour with them, she ran to me.

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What is the difference exactly? When she was with me she was acting almost like we were together, but when she went back to school it was obviously drama she didnt need and I was far away.

 

Does it mean that I was better than a backup plan and valued more than the other guy?

 

EDIT: When things went sour with them, she ran to me.

I don't know. All I can say is the girl is no good but you seem to want to justify her actions.:rolleyes:

 

Of course when things went badly with him, she went to you. You were the next one in line.

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I don't know. All I can say is the girl is no good but you seem to want to justify her actions.:rolleyes:

 

Of course when things went badly with him, she went to you. You were the next one in line.

 

Of course i want to justify it and understand it. The dude before did nothing wrong, he was good to her as far as i know. I want to understand, and I don't want to get hurt.

 

And, I am falling in love with her, more every day.

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Of course i want to justify it and understand it. The dude before did nothing wrong, he was good to her as far as i know. I want to understand, and I don't want to get hurt.

 

And, I am falling in love with her, more every day.

 

....and she cheated and dumped him. This is the type of girl she is. And if you don't want to get hurt, then you better end it now.

 

Is it really LOVE that you feel or is it LUST? There is a difference.

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Her vagina is very tight.

 

Lol.:D:p:laugh::p....... You made my day. Still, can't stop laughing.

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Lol.:D:p:laugh::p....... You made my day. Still, can't stop laughing.

Yeah the guy is hooked on her super tight pussy. Little does he know most pussies are tight. Doesn't mean the girl hasn't had a lot of dick. That was his dumbest argument by far. :rolleyes:

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