Feanor Posted October 21, 2011 Posted October 21, 2011 Hi, This is a fairly small issue compared to what other people seem to be dealing with on this forum. I went on a first date with a girl I met online a couple of days ago. I thought it went pretty well, we went to dinner and we had some good conversations. At the end of the night we kissed. So I thought I'd have an easy time getting a second date. But I tried calling her today with no reason and then I tried again a few hours later and again no answer. Should I just be done with this? Is it pointless for me to try and call again? Maybe send a text in a day or two? What do you all think?
Lobouspo Posted October 21, 2011 Posted October 21, 2011 This my friend is an unfortunate yet common reality of dating these days. She may have had a good time but has other options. She may have played it off like she had a good time to avoid any confrontation or unpleasantness. If you met her online she is probably seeing other people. The mentality of many online daters is that there is always someone better just a click away. At the end of the day does the why really matter? If you really like her shoot her another email in a few days, but be prepared for no response (or a really lame response) and be prepared to move on.
Pierre Posted October 21, 2011 Posted October 21, 2011 Hi, This is a fairly small issue compared to what other people seem to be dealing with on this forum. I went on a first date with a girl I met online a couple of days ago. I thought it went pretty well, we went to dinner and we had some good conversations. At the end of the night we kissed. So I thought I'd have an easy time getting a second date. But I tried calling her today with no reason and then I tried again a few hours later and again no answer. Should I just be done with this? Is it pointless for me to try and call again? Maybe send a text in a day or two? What do you all think? She is likely too busy dating several guys. Multidating is common for many folks that do OLD.
oaks Posted October 21, 2011 Posted October 21, 2011 If you left a message when you called then there's no point in trying again - she got your message. If you didn't leave a message (why not?) then call and leave a message this time.
SingleinSouth Posted October 21, 2011 Posted October 21, 2011 If you left a message when you called then there's no point in trying again - she got your message. If you didn't leave a message (why not?) then call and leave a message this time. Yes, ALWAYS leave a message when you call. Otherwise, it looks like you lack confidence and "think" she may not answer so you just hang up. It's impossible to hide it these days with missed calls and caller id. Just leave a message. Always.
louise_23 Posted October 21, 2011 Posted October 21, 2011 Hi, This is a fairly small issue compared to what other people seem to be dealing with on this forum. I went on a first date with a girl I met online a couple of days ago. I thought it went pretty well, we went to dinner and we had some good conversations. At the end of the night we kissed. So I thought I'd have an easy time getting a second date. But I tried calling her today with no reason and then I tried again a few hours later and again no answer. Should I just be done with this? Is it pointless for me to try and call again? Maybe send a text in a day or two? What do you all think? let her get on with it. apparently people dont have the balls/ manners to say theyre not interested these days, theyll just ignore you instead. move on and find someone with basic manners!
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