let me chase you ?

[OCCDAVE]

Today i heard from another girl i was talking to for sometime we hung out then she went mia.she told me today im sorta needy and not much of a challenge.i didnt get mad just listened and told her so now what .i dunno she said just give me time to chase you.i said oh ok thx for advice.im confused show a girl u like her ur need dont and she likes ?

[DenumChkn]

First of all, I hope you sound like less of a 12 year old in your voice and text communications than you do in this post.

 

Second of all, if you were contacting her every day or with great frequency then yes, this tends to be a turn off to girls - unless they are reciprocating by contacting you back. They just want to know that you have a life outside of trying to get with them. Contact her once every week or two with something short and funny, see if she is interested in meeting up. If she keeps blowing you off after doing this a few times then you know to move on. If she agrees to meet up or finally reaches out to make contact/plans with you then great, she is obviously interested. Good luck.

[Mrlonelyone]

:/

 

It could mean this: You let her chase you then she decides not to chase you at all.

 

If I were in your position I would emotionally detach from this woman. If she chases you great if not your already moving on. Start to emotionally move on that way if she does the fade it'll be like you broke it off with her.

 

I hope I'm wrong.

[Eddie Edirol]

It means she cant grow attached to you because your heart isnt a challenge. You have to make her work for it. Do you know what that means?

[OCCDAVE]

Well i would text her every day tbh .i was getting over her anyway i just thought id listen cause if she said that who knows what my past ones thought.so for example with this new girl im talking to if she says she will call back let her dont always be the one calling.

[Imageiko]

She's giving you good advice, listen to her!

[OCCDAVE]

I am heck everyone here does i just need to start using it which i will