Gypsie Posted October 20, 2011 Posted October 20, 2011 Did I have a right to be angry at my ex boyfriend when I did. Had not seen him practically all month. He rarely spoke on the phone, sent texts to me, was canceling dates on me. I felt like he was taking me for granted and that he was only seeing me whenever it was convenient for him. I bring this up and tell him. He just says that he was busy and things always pop up last minute for him. Oh and no. I do not think I was clingy. I would normally contact him like every two, three days. With a little message or something. I try to work out if it is possible to get at least one or two days a week with him but he could not do it and said it will be like that for a while. Seeing him every two, three weeks. He also says that he is not ready for a relationship yet. He admits he still likes me though and wants to catch up. Have not heard from him since. Just through one email after a week suggesting to him if he really meant what he said about being friends. He agrees and writes yes cause we have a lot of mutual friends now. It will be the mature thing to do. Still do not hear from him. Just gotta keep the no contact thing going again I guess. Have not gotten emotional or anything with him since. Just have let things be. Reckon he will notice that?
vsmini Posted October 20, 2011 Posted October 20, 2011 I'm confused - was he being like this after you broke up? Was he your ex during this time you were frustrated with him? Were you ever officially dating? Just because you mentioned he wasn't ready for a relationship.
Imajerk17 Posted October 20, 2011 Posted October 20, 2011 (edited) I read your posts to get the back story. It just sounds that you are way more into him than he is into you, and your clinging is making him so evasive. His reaction is entirely natural and human IMO. You're making him a priority when he made it clear that really, you were just an option, which isn't that why he broke up with you--he wasn't ready for a relationship. And that's kind of unattractive. He'll probably come around when you start dating someone else. Edited October 20, 2011 by Imajerk17
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