nyckidd Posted October 20, 2011 Posted October 20, 2011 (edited) So Ill make this short and to the point. My ex of 2 1/2 years broke up with me for the second time a little over 2 weeks ago, we have been in NC for a little over a week. She did come back to me last time, unfortunatley we never really resolved our issues because we were so happy to be back with eachother. I played it cool last time and when we did get back together I asked her if I would have made the situation worse by sending her emails with "our songs in it" etc. (Not going to over board but making efforts here and there to show her I cared>) She said no and that she actually would of liked it. So now that leads me to this question: Do I try reaching out to her in ways like that? Becausee so far I haven't but have absolutley been tempted too. Any suggestions? Id love to have her back, so we could actually fix our problems, and not just pretend like they would simply vanished if we reunited. Edited October 20, 2011 by nyckidd messed up spelling
LostInLimbo Posted October 20, 2011 Posted October 20, 2011 Hey NYCKIDD is it worth reaching out? meaning is it going to help? or put you back to where you were before, only to possibly go through this all over again, how long do you wanna prolong the pain? If you wanna try and work on things, have you tried Counciling? the problem with that is BOTH parties wanna have to do it and be there,as well as TRY to make it work out. I've been there, counciling didn't work, because it was only me who seemed to want it, although my ex was willing to go, she didn't want to be there. Best Wishes NYC LiL
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