perfectlyflawed459 Posted October 19, 2011 Posted October 19, 2011 And I can honestly say I am okay Sure I have my moments and not a day goes by where he doesn't cross my mind, but this whole thing has made me so much more positive. It makes me appreciate everything that is currently going right in my life. I mean I just got awarded $1000 each semester for having a high GPA, I am getting a brand new car because my grandmother is giving me $10000 out of the kindness of her heart for one and my family is pitching in $1000 each, I am acing all my classes and am going to be applying to Pharmacy school soon, I have met so many new people and made lots of new friends lately, and I have had many guys approach me since I decided to cut off contact with my ex. I dunno, once I cut him out life just got so much better! I already feel like I am becoming the better person I want to be and am learning to love myself and put myself first. My ex is currently with another girl right now, which I admit hurt a bit, but I refuse to let that bring me down. If there comes a time where he starts to wonder about me, I want him to see that I am doing better than ever before. I made sure to leave him knowing how much he truly meant to me and that my love is unconditional. He told me he knows he's a jerk and that it is mostly his fault that we fell apart. He tried to tell me that girl meant nothing, but I just let him go. I have a feeling that all that will catch up to him in the long run and that our paths will cross. Until then, it feels good to not really worry about him anymore. Life is good, freedom is good.
confused kitty Posted October 19, 2011 Posted October 19, 2011 Go you! your outlook is so positive - wish i could take a leaf from your book hehe
marqueemoon4 Posted October 19, 2011 Posted October 19, 2011 You seem like a really sweet, positive person. Your ex is going to regret letting you go.
Author perfectlyflawed459 Posted October 20, 2011 Author Posted October 20, 2011 Go you! your outlook is so positive - wish i could take a leaf from your book hehe Oh believe me, it really does take time. I know it is cliche and oversaid, but it holds so much truth. Focusing on the positive things in life really does one's soul good and it helps take your mind of your ex and such. I went through hell and back with him, we had on and off contact and it took me almost ten months to finally decide to let go. I thought keeping him in my life would be a good thing, but it just caused more problems than it solved. He has reached out to me a few times since we split, but we have never had full on separation from each other. I realized that that was what was needed all along if anything is to get better. I know it is hard, but really in times like these, positive outlooks are your bestfriend. You have to be able to love yourself, before you can expect anyone else to
Author perfectlyflawed459 Posted October 20, 2011 Author Posted October 20, 2011 You seem like a really sweet, positive person. Your ex is going to regret letting you go. Thank you so much You and everyone on LS have helped me so much and I cannot thank you guys enough for your great advice and postive words of encouragement!
Author perfectlyflawed459 Posted October 20, 2011 Author Posted October 20, 2011 gooood shieeet! Amen! Things will only get better
sadprincess Posted October 20, 2011 Posted October 20, 2011 I think I remember u sayin u ran into his mom and she went through the same situation but ended up with the guy in the end. I hope u don't feel that. Love shouldn't be unconditional. I just found out my es made plans with some girl...like that quick eh? I don't want him back at all. But I want him to feel guilty and ashamed for hurting me. U will have to give me a million bucks to get back with my ex. All I want is respect. Honesty. Compassion. Guilt and sorrow for hurting me. And it's hard to let someone go, but love should be conditional. Once a cheater, always a cheater. And he has conditons to abide by if he ever wants to earn ur respect. You'll have fun in grad school, meet new people, be to busy learning ur mechanism of actions of drugs and what drugs don't interact with other drugs to have him on ur mind. I'm glad ur able to get an apology from him (that's all a person need to move on). U got it... Now have fun
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