start-fresh Posted October 19, 2011 Posted October 19, 2011 This is more something that belongs in second chances, but I think a lot of times the posters in that forum are a lot more skewed towards people who have been dumped. As a result, I think they project their wish for an ex to contact them into any posts when maybe it's not best... So my question is this. I moved late last winter out of state for a job I didn't have to take. I just wanted the career advancement. In the process, I broke up with my girlfriend because I wasn't planning on living anywhere near where we were living in the future and I didn't see how the relationship could work because I didn't think we'd been together long enough to ask her to move for me. It seemed like the logical choice to me but she was heartbroken. She has since started dating another guy. I have dated others as well but not as seriously as her. I regret breaking up with her terribly as there was no problems in the relationship, but I didn't see how it could ever develop into more. We kind of got back together for a couple days but I still couldn't commit. Well, I have since decided if it's possible I want to move back to where we were living but at the same time I am still in love with her. I want to tell her if things don't work out with the new guy I want to try again. I'm meeting other people myself but noone compares. She was the first girl I've dated seriously, and I just had a lot to learn about a good relationship. At the time we were dating she said she didn't know how she could live without me
Author start-fresh Posted October 19, 2011 Author Posted October 19, 2011 I should add we haven't kept in touch as friends because it was too hard for both of us and just wasn't working. I would start out as friends, but she's with the new guy and I would want to end up being lovers again.
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