quietGuy13 Posted October 19, 2011 Posted October 19, 2011 Girls online in Dating sites are disrespectful. I'm not saying ignoreing your first mail..If they ignore your first email then fine, they never even started anything with you. so ok. but i'm talking about girls that make contact once. and then after that they decide to ignore you. For example, they chat with you , you have great conversation. they lie and say they will contact you and from now on, they don't respond to emails and sometimes even block you. With no reason given as to why. You end up wondering what you did wrong. That's what happened to me many times, and recently too. This girl we had a chat, she even said she wants to be my friend and visit me. And now, my email is ignored and closes my window when i send her an IM thing in the dating site. I just think Girls always have the power. Moreover so , because they usually don't pay. In dating sites they guys are the ones paying, and they just sit there and decide to tak to you or block you. WOmen have all the power in dating sites. it's sad that they act disrespectful without explaining anything. Anyone know why they do it? I mean if she had a great chat with me, why now blocks me. If it was all fake that she was enjoyng my chat then why?
azsinglegal Posted October 19, 2011 Posted October 19, 2011 What dating site are you using where only the men pay? I need to get in on that. LOL
Lucky_One Posted October 19, 2011 Posted October 19, 2011 I guess you could call it disrespectful, but some people might also call it passive, and some people could also call it kind, and some people could also call it flighty. Quiet_guy, I don't know what the conversation consisted of. BUT if you talked to her the way that you talked to us (negative about yourself, negative about your seeming inability to have a sexual relationship, full of fears about possible diseases, negative about women/dating, unhappy about your lifestyle, etc.), then you could have a situation where she simply doesn't know what to say, so she cuts you off. She might have nothing kind to say to you, or she might not know how to answer your question without feeling like she is hurting your feelings. SHOULD people be honest? Yes, probably they should. But if you ask "Does this outfit make me look fat?" and the answer is a definite "Yes, you look fat", then many many people will avoid the question or lie. How did the movie date go? And did you see my post on your high-pitched voice thread?
grkBoy Posted October 19, 2011 Posted October 19, 2011 WOmen have all the power in dating sites. it's sad that they act disrespectful without explaining anything. Anyone know why they do it? Remember that topic I posted on how people with loads of options can "break the rules" or "be bad" because they can easily replace a complainer with someone else? It's the story here. If she's got an inbox full of guys who are willing to kill themselves for a date with her, then she can be a complete b***h if she wants to...and someone will willingly take it just for a shot at her. Now I'm going to turn this around. Think about every woman who gets into talking with a guy or even goes out with him once, and then he vanishes. Both sides go through this and the women complain as you are now. You're not alone. I mean if she had a great chat with me, why now blocks me. If it was all fake that she was enjoyng my chat then why? Because she decided to be nice, not tell you the truth, but she's not into you. I don't agree with how she handled it, but she decided she really didn't want to know you any further and thus cut you off from ever darkening her doorstep. In all actuality, I wish dating sites could easily make this happen. You see a guy or girl you're not into, press the reject button...and they never see you ever again on the site. Thus you can free yourself of being contacted by all the men and women you're not into and only get contacted by men and women you want. Deep breaths...don't give up.
oaks Posted October 19, 2011 Posted October 19, 2011 Oh this is a new topic that we've never discussed before. *gets popcorn*
aj22one Posted October 19, 2011 Posted October 19, 2011 Has any man ever had a good experience with online dating?
Pasttense Posted October 19, 2011 Posted October 19, 2011 So the solution is to drop online dating and switch to real life dating.
Imajerk17 Posted October 19, 2011 Posted October 19, 2011 (edited) I am going to be blunt. A lot of it is you. Until you make a serious stab at self-improvement, you probably are going to keep coming across as weird or creepy, which is how you have been coming across on this forum. It's probably why the women you chat with act as they do, because you weird them out. Edited October 19, 2011 by Imajerk17
ShannonMI Posted October 19, 2011 Posted October 19, 2011 I am going to be blunt. A lot of it is you. Until you make a serious stab at self-improvement, you probably are going to keep coming across as weird or creepy, which is how you have been coming across on this forum. It's probably why the women you chat with act as they do, because you weird them out. Ditto to this. Like the one thread. "I've never been to a movie theater before, what do I do?" Which in an of itself is a bunch of bullsh*t unless you've lived a literal bubble you're whole life. Are you Bubble Boy? And then you went on to ask how to buy tickets. God only knows what the dude says to these chicks. Not to be a b*tch, but come the f*ck on already. You're supposedly 30 some years old, time to start acting like it honey.
ShannonMI Posted October 19, 2011 Posted October 19, 2011 It's like here when you mentioned you like to play with Teddie Bears, all the woman become instantly turned off from you. You have to quit saying things like that and I bet something you said was way off base and she said "oookkkiiieeee" You have to work on that, bud. Dude is surely a troll. That's why I have no issue being a complete b*tch to him in his threads.
Disenchantedly Yours Posted October 19, 2011 Posted October 19, 2011 You're right, it's only girls online that are disrespectful. Because when I online dated I met so many respectful men it was like they went to Mr. Good Manners Acadamy of Polite Etiquette for Men in the Millennium.
CarrieT Posted October 19, 2011 Posted October 19, 2011 WOmen have all the power in dating sites. it's sad that they act disrespectful without explaining anything. Anyone know why they do it? I mean if she had a great chat with me, why now blocks me. If it was all fake that she was enjoyng my chat then why? This is SO a two-way street... I can't tell you how often I've chatted with a guy and been stood-up when we go to meet for a cocktail. Or I get sent a picture that is ten years older and 40-pounds heavier than the guy really is. Or they never respond at all after an initial contact. It isn't just girls who are disrespectful; it is people ONLINE who, because they are not face-to-face with an individual, throw courtesy and propriety out the window.
ShannonMI Posted October 19, 2011 Posted October 19, 2011 I often like freaking out women on dates. Sometimes I sit there, pick my nose and eat the contents in front of her. Mmmm meaty! Hahahahahahahahaha
fortyninethousand322 Posted October 19, 2011 Posted October 19, 2011 Dude is surely a troll. That's why I have no issue being a complete b*tch to him in his threads. I'm pretty sure in another thread it was revealed he had Autism/Aspergers or something (could be wrong, but I'm pretty sure). Since I don't really know what to say to someone who does I just kind of avoid his threads. Feel free to assume he's a troll and treat him accordingly though. This is the internet, you may very well be accurate in your assessment so who knows.
ShannonMI Posted October 19, 2011 Posted October 19, 2011 I'm pretty sure in another thread it was revealed he had Autism/Aspergers or something (could be wrong, but I'm pretty sure). Since I don't really know what to say to someone who does I just kind of avoid his threads. Feel free to assume he's a troll and treat him accordingly though. This is the internet, you may very well be accurate in your assessment so who knows. If he were autistic wouldn't he have issues even typing or forming thoughts to type out? I know autistic people are often very smart, but they have issues with simple things. I may not even know what I'm talking about, but my hunch is dude is a troll. His threads annoy the f*ck out of me.
OnyxSnowfall Posted October 19, 2011 Posted October 19, 2011 I often like freaking out women on dates. Sometimes I sit there, pick my nose and eat the contents in front of her. Mmmm meaty! LoL
fortyninethousand322 Posted October 19, 2011 Posted October 19, 2011 If he were autistic wouldn't he have issues even typing or forming thoughts to type out? I know autistic people are often very smart, but they have issues with simple things. I may not even know what I'm talking about, but my hunch is dude is a troll. His threads annoy the f*ck out of me. I don't know, I'm not a knowist when it comes to Autism and Aspergers. My guess is that there's probably some people with either of those who can make coherent thoughts in written form just not in person or inter-personally. But, again, I really don't know so I'm just speculating. But if his threads are really annoying to you, you could try ignoring them.
ShannonMI Posted October 19, 2011 Posted October 19, 2011 I made it a pact from now on to not list anyone on this forum as anything "I" think they are. QG previously mentioned he does have a problem being a little slow and.... well...Quiet. He may be a troll or he may be for real, I'm learning to respect either way, because insulting or making fun of someone who you think is a troll on here may be in fact, genuine and wanting help or put them over the edge. So if I think they are a troll...I simply will not pour my heart to them or respond in their threads;) I just think that it is good forum mo-jo. I agree, but when there are more and more of these threads popping up, it's hard to resist blasting them. He could very well be mentally challenged and if he is: I'm genuinely sorry Quietguy!! Didn't mean an DISRESPECT;) Don't mind me though, I'm PMSing hahahahahaha:laugh: I'm not usually this mean.
alphamale Posted October 19, 2011 Posted October 19, 2011 online dating is a huge scam and a big waste of time for the majority of people
Imajerk17 Posted October 19, 2011 Posted October 19, 2011 (edited) I will never make fun of someone for their disabilities, but I just wish the dude would take some responsibility. If he is smart enough to come on here and ask whether it is weird that he plays with stuffed animals, then he is smart enough to make some stab at self-improvement. And if he isn't then.... why are his caretakers letting him on the internet, and in particular, on this very site? If he is really a little child in a 30-year-old body, then he doesn't belong here. For his sake. Edited October 19, 2011 by Imajerk17
AHardDaysNight Posted October 19, 2011 Posted October 19, 2011 OP, it does no good to create threads like this. All you do is piss off the people that are trying to help you...and annoy everyone else as well. No, women aren't being mean by doing this. They probably found someone they liked better...but that isn't being mean. Would you rather them be honest, and say "F off, you pathetic loser?" Because I sure wouldn't! If he were autistic wouldn't he have issues even typing or forming thoughts to type out? I know autistic people are often very smart, but they have issues with simple things. I may not even know what I'm talking about, but my hunch is dude is a troll. His threads annoy the f*ck out of me. Hmm, Einstein was supposedly autistic. Form your own conclusions.
Imajerk17 Posted October 19, 2011 Posted October 19, 2011 Hmm, Einstein was supposedly autistic. Form your own conclusions. Einstein also got laid a lot. Seriously.
Queen Zenobia Posted October 19, 2011 Posted October 19, 2011 Einstein also got laid a lot. Seriously. It's hard to resist a man with big...erm...brains.
AHardDaysNight Posted October 19, 2011 Posted October 19, 2011 All I'm saying is that autistics come in all shapes and sizes. This one is bitter, but I doubt his bitterness is tied to his autism.
Lucky_One Posted October 19, 2011 Posted October 19, 2011 If he were autistic wouldn't he have issues even typing or forming thoughts to type out? I know autistic people are often very smart, but they have issues with simple things. I may not even know what I'm talking about, but my hunch is dude is a troll. His threads annoy the f*ck out of me. You don't know what you are talking about. Try to open your mind and learn a little bit more about the rest of the inhabitants of this world. Troll? Maybe. Maybe not. But darned if I am going to be the one to be a "complete bitch" to a stranger who could possibly have a developmental delay or an educational disability. The guy on the street corner asking for hand-outs might not really need to be in a wheelchair, either, but I am not cold enough to go dump him out of it to see if he has to crawl out of the traffic. So you go for it. If his threads annoy you, then quit reading them.
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