shellgranado Posted May 18, 2004 Posted May 18, 2004 Dont know what to do .I have been and lived with my boyfriend for 5 years I love him alot times have not been easy but we made it through .but anymore its like he doesnt care i know in some kind of way he still loves me but now he has this flirting thing going on and i cant stand it . hes been going on internet chat and chating with girls viewing there web cams well i didnt yell or fight i showed him i could do the same he doesnt like it so he hasnt been back on there .but when he gets drunk he flirts we hardley go to bars but sometimes like 2 a month we will get together with a bunch of friends and go . i dont know if hes trying to make me jealous or if hes trying to show off but he'll stare follow them around try to get there attention he will walk by them say stuff and he knows i get mad when i ask him what he says he act like hes incint he will say nothing i said nothing i know hes lying but the next day when hes sober its a diffrent story this is driving me crazy i always tell him im done with bars but he insists we go back oh ya sometimes hell cuse at me real loud at the bar if i say something to him so everyone can hear like oh well i dont care if you dont like it he will use the f word in that what do i do
Pyrannaste Posted May 18, 2004 Posted May 18, 2004 I also read in another post you wrote that your bf will "talk to you like you are dirt", go to stripclubs while you are at home in an emotional storm, and do other very unpleasant things. Don't allow this man to treat you like this any further. He's been doing all this because you allowed him. He acts disrespectfully, you get mad.....and let him have it his way. I suppose you already tried to *talk* to him about all this. Try again. And again. If he won't listen, it's ultimatum time.
Author shellgranado Posted May 18, 2004 Author Posted May 18, 2004 i know for a fact he hasnt cheated i know and he lets me know where hes at at all times . same with the phone he tells me who calls use to be when we were out he use to tell me when some one was hitting on him or flirting with him he gets real jealous of my ex he thinks his flirting is funny so i really think hes doing it to make me mad i cant just break up with were buying a house together . so were finacling bind but sometimes i just want to give up i want to break up but cant i have 3 children from my past marriage he took them in like they were his own and he treats them like hes there dad he loves them there real dad doesnt care for them i just need help yes i have tryed to talk to him he just says that im accusing him and thaT IF HES GOING TO BE ACCUSED THAT HE MIGHT AS WELL DO SOMETHING
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