musicSaves12 Posted October 19, 2011 Posted October 19, 2011 Hi again, I know I posted on here before how my breakup wasn't bad there wasn't any drama that lead to the breakup, it ended because she did not feel the same way about me that I felt for her. I have been good about the whole NC thing for almost three weeks now. Even though I read all about people trying to "fight" to get their ex back and it makes me want to try and reach out and contact my ex I think from what I know about her and what I have read on here that this just won't work. I have to keep the distance from her for myself. It is just hard not talking to someone you thought was a best friend. I'm sad. I want to talk to her but I know now would be the worst time of all especially since my emotions are getting the better of me for the time being. Sometimes I wish I didn't care so much and move on already. However, I also wish she would contact me but I know that is just wishful thinking for the most part and I shouldn't expect her to come back. Live to fight another day Thanks
mike588 Posted October 19, 2011 Posted October 19, 2011 I know exactly how you feel. I was dumped hard close to 3 months now and have been in strict N.C. for 2 1/2 months. I too dislike the idea of losing a close friend but know it will only reopen the wound at this time. I've been torn over the no contact rule because each relationship and situation are different. When I feel indifferent towards her maybe,,, maybe I'll contact her with a short email not bringing up the breakup or the hurt I went thru just to say hi and hope she is doing well. Why and for what reason I'm not sure.I may feel that way now but that may change when I'm completely over her.
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