VioletFae Posted October 19, 2011 Posted October 19, 2011 Hi, My partner and I have been in love with each other for 10 years, but only being in a relationship for a year. We've had a lot of people attacking the relationship and because his ex isn't happy, she's stopped him from seeing his boys. he's been really stressed at work, and he kept asking me if I was happy, he was worried that because he works away a lot that I'd get annoyed and find someone else. I've told him repeatedly that I love him, but he's still been insecure about this. He's trying to sell his house, which is stressing him out because its not selling. My landlord has ended my contract because he wants to sell the house so we've got to find somewhere else to live, which has been stressful too. Friday, he rang me to say he was coming home and that he was really excited to see me. We hugged and kissed a lot as soon as we saw each other and we took my kids out to the cinema, he paid, we had a great time, we laughed, held hands, it was perfect. He's even been talking about marriage. Saturday morning, he said his head was blagged and he went out for a couple of hours, came back and said that he couldn't do it anymore, that he loves me, but that he needs time to sort his head out. He said that he needs to see his kids. He said he loves me, and before he left he held me so tight for about 15 minutes and kissed me goodbye. He just kept repeating that he needs time. We were living together and he's left ALL of his stuff with me, all his prized possessions, he's just taken a suitcase of clothes and his laptop. He won't reply to my text messages, but when I rang him on Monday, he answered. He told me that he misses me, he just needs time. He told me to ring him when I've managed to sort out a new property. he sounded really hurt and he's not sleeping cos of it. He said it was over, but straight after he again repeated that he just needs time to sort his stuff out. I'm really confused, I don't see how someone can love someone so much and be all loved up and then just run away. My mum and friends are convinced that he's going to come back, that he does need time for whatevers going on in his head, and that because he recognises that he gets jealous when other men talk to me, that its scaring him. What does everyone else think? I've run through things a million times in my head, I know he loves me and I know that I love him....so whats going on? Do I ring him every so often to let him know I'm thinking of him, or do I do as he asks and wait til I've moved? I'm not going to seperate his things, I'm going to move everything as though we're still a couple.
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