mshummy88 Posted October 19, 2011 Posted October 19, 2011 So there's this girl that I've been somewhat seeing...mainly just hanging out with her and I think that things have been going really well! We've known each other for almost a month and have hung out 2-3 times maybe a week just going out and having fun. Last week we went out for a margarita special and we started to kiss afterwards and led to us holding hands and acting like a couple. Since then whenever we've hung out its been a genuine couple feeling to it, i've spent the night at her place a couple times and the only thing that's happened is that we just cuddled the entire night. So we went out last night with a group of friends at a restaurant and she lit up when she saw me walk in and the entire time we were thing she was engaging a lot of one-on-one conversations like "how was your day? Its good to see you"..stuff like that night ended with me going back to her place to cuddle and sleep the night away. After spending the night at her place yesterday, we woke up this morning and rode the train back into the city so she could get to work. While we were walking she says to me "Is it ok if we just have fun now? nothing serious?" and I told her that was fine to me and we left it as that. Following that question though we continued to hold hands and she kissed me goodbye before we split off. This has been running through my head all day today and I may be over-thinking it but is this a good thing? To me I saw it as that because she doesn't want to jump into anything and just wants to see how things go. Any insights?
Pasttense Posted October 19, 2011 Posted October 19, 2011 It could well be something from her previous dating history which makes her hesitant about moving too fast.
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