Symetrical-Siren Posted October 19, 2011 Posted October 19, 2011 so......masturbation while in a relationship: What are your thoughts on the subject ? I'm in a long term relationship with my boyfriend, but I still masturbate from time to time (no toys, or anything kinky...just my hand). Anyone else in a relationship that still does this ? He has an issue with it, but he doesn't understand the climax I get from self service is different. I think it's nice to change up now and again.
USMCHokie Posted October 19, 2011 Posted October 19, 2011 I personally don't find the need or desire to self-service when I've been in a relationship, and I wouldn't have a problem if a woman needs to do what she needs/wants to do...as long as I'm not being "replaced," then have at it! If you get a different experience when you're solo, then train the guy so that he can produce the same results for you...
Feelin Frisky Posted October 19, 2011 Posted October 19, 2011 It is an absolute major plus that a women is that sexual that she masturbates even during relationships. It usually implies that the fella is going to be sharing some mutual ecstasy with her if both perform well. I'm a lot more concerned about those who don't. I myself would not because I'm not a young lad any more and I'd rather save up for a major league sharing of myself with my partner.
SammyLovex3 Posted October 19, 2011 Posted October 19, 2011 I'm thinking he could be questioning how good he is at pleasing you. I do the same thing, but I've never dated a guy who had a problem with it. Explain that you love being with him, but sometimes you just want to do it yourself. So you don't have to tell him faster, slower, to the left.
smudge21 Posted October 19, 2011 Posted October 19, 2011 Think communication may be your problem here. Talk to him. Personally I've loved it when a woman has been that comfortable with me that she's happy not only to say she pleasures herself still, but also willing to do it with me there. I suppose everyone's different though, so even though you can talk to him, don't get too annoyed that he still has his own opinions on it. As long as he can accept you do it and the rest of the relationship is fine, then you should be okay.
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